I have a date in 11 hours. My last date was probably 10 years ago.
Quick! How do I girls?!
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| Author: | Stathol [ Sun May 04, 2014 11:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Panic mode engaged |
I have a date in 11 hours. My last date was probably 10 years ago. Quick! How do I girls?! |
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| Author: | FarSky [ Sun May 04, 2014 11:24 pm ] |
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Hold on, I think I know this one. ...Stop, drop, and roll? |
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| Author: | Midgen [ Sun May 04, 2014 11:37 pm ] |
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just relax and be yourself... |
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| Author: | Rynar [ Sun May 04, 2014 11:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Panic mode engaged |
Stathol wrote: I have a date in 11 hours. My last date was probably 10 years ago. Quick! How do I girls?! In the butt. Duh. |
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| Author: | Aethien [ Mon May 05, 2014 12:15 am ] |
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Midgen wrote: just relax and be yourself... I'd love to say that that works, but ... I'm dubious. Of course, I have no real other suggestions, unfortunately. |
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| Author: | Sam [ Mon May 05, 2014 1:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Panic mode engaged |
It's been a LONG time since I had to date, but if I had to give a couple of tips they would be: 1) Listen more, talk less. 2) Be flexible, but don't be indecisive. 3) DO NOT CHECK OUT OTHER WOMEN WHILE ON THE DATE. |
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| Author: | Hopwin [ Mon May 05, 2014 7:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Panic mode engaged |
Stathol wrote: I have a date in 11 hours. My last date was probably 10 years ago. Quick! How do I girls?! I'd recommend you pull a Constanza. Do the exact opposite of what you think is right. (works for me) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Opposite |
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| Author: | Crimsonsun [ Mon May 05, 2014 7:53 am ] |
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Don't overthink it. Just go have fun, and if you're actually interested in romantic relationship, be sure to let her know ASAP that its that kind of a date, not just friends dating. |
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| Author: | TheRiov [ Mon May 05, 2014 8:47 am ] |
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compliment her shoes 
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| Author: | Hopwin [ Mon May 05, 2014 9:05 am ] |
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Crimsonsun wrote: Don't overthink it. Just go have fun, and if you're actually interested in romantic relationship, be sure to let her know ASAP that its that kind of a date, not just friends dating. Don't do that. A date is a date, friends "dating" is hanging out. Don't conflate the two or you'll come across as unconfident and make her question it. If she agreed to go out with you it is a date. |
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| Author: | Stathol [ Mon May 05, 2014 9:09 am ] |
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Heh. This post was not 100% serious. I'm just being self-deprecating. I got all the panicking out of my system before I called her. We're going to the Dallas Arboretum. Truthfully, she only barely knows me, so I don't think there's any chance of this being interpreted as "hey, friend, let's hang out". That said, this is really just a "get to know you" sort of date more than anything. If it winds up being a friend thing, I'm good with that too. |
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| Author: | Arathain Kelvar [ Mon May 05, 2014 11:19 am ] |
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Good choice. Dinner is the worst first date imaginable. But yeah, relax. Don't try to impress her, don't try to be something you're not (do you really want her to get interested in someone you're not able to keep up?). Also - don't rely on her to do all the talking. It's ANNOYING when people won't hold up their end of the conversation. Show an interest in her, but don't interrogate her either. |
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| Author: | Arathain Kelvar [ Mon May 05, 2014 11:21 am ] |
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Avoid awkward questions you would have a hard time answering. "so, tell me about yourself" |
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| Author: | Hopwin [ Mon May 05, 2014 11:40 am ] |
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and if all else fails Spoiler: |
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| Author: | Darkroland [ Tue May 06, 2014 10:09 am ] |
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Stathol wrote: Heh. This post was not 100% serious. I'm just being self-deprecating. I got all the panicking out of my system before I called her. We're going to the Dallas Arboretum. Truthfully, she only barely knows me, so I don't think there's any chance of this being interpreted as "hey, friend, let's hang out". That said, this is really just a "get to know you" sort of date more than anything. If it winds up being a friend thing, I'm good with that too. The arboretum is really pretty right now, good choice. Try and get her to run through the water spraying frogs! |
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| Author: | Stathol [ Tue May 06, 2014 11:14 am ] |
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Yeah, it was nice. I wanted to get out there before spring gave way to the inferno. It's starting to get pretty warm, but not too hot yet. Lots girls were there getting photos in their gigantic quinceañera dresses. Lunch was had, conversation was made. I think it went pretty well. Arboretums are quiet and relaxing places, though, and the line between "quiet and relaxing" and "boring" can be a little thin. She said she had fun, but whether that was just the customary end-of-date niceties or she actually meant it is hard to say. We're in the same campus ministry group, so I'll be seeing her again throughout the summer. Hopefully I'll be able to get a better read on it in the next week or so. |
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| Author: | Hopwin [ Tue May 06, 2014 11:19 am ] |
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Quote: Hopefully I'll be able to get a better read on it in the next week or so. Don't be passive, if you are interested then ask her out again 
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| Author: | TheRiov [ Tue May 06, 2014 11:24 am ] |
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| Author: | Numbuk [ Tue May 06, 2014 12:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Panic mode engaged |
Best advice I can give is to try and ask more than one girl out at a time (not necessarily on the same date). This solves multiple problems: 1. Getting too worked up over just one person and being devastated if it doesn't work out. 2. It allows you to relax far easier because part of your brain knows that if you screw this up, it's not as big of a deal. 3. (Most) women seem to become more interested in a guy when they know that other women are also interested in them (though I strongly recommend that any info about your dating life is very carefully and unbraggingly leaked, if at all). Essentially, it's all designed to make you a bit more aloof, relaxed, and confident. The three things that (most) women are looking for in a guy. It trumps even looks and physique. Obviously, don't continue to do this once a clear relationship gets defined with one of them. |
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| Author: | shuyung [ Tue May 06, 2014 12:38 pm ] |
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Ask her if she'd like to play with your penis. Chicks like penises. |
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| Author: | Diamondeye [ Tue May 06, 2014 3:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Panic mode engaged |
Just ask Taly, she'll confirm.  
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| Author: | Diamondeye [ Tue May 06, 2014 5:58 pm ] |
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Hopwin wrote: Quote: Hopefully I'll be able to get a better read on it in the next week or so. Don't be passive, if you are interested then ask her out again Definitely. It's not at all uncommon for girls to act less interested then they actually are, so ask again! |
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| Author: | Rynar [ Tue May 06, 2014 10:40 pm ] |
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So... in the butt? |
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| Author: | Elmarnieh [ Mon May 12, 2014 1:14 pm ] |
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Talk about umbrellas for 60% of the date at least. Works for me. |
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| Author: | Darkroland [ Mon May 12, 2014 3:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Panic mode engaged |
"So..... have you ever touched a penis with an umbrella?" |
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