RangerDave wrote:
I'm definitely a Guesser, and I do tend to react negatively to Askers. The usual pattern is that I give and give, wrongly assuming that, like me, they wouldn't ask for something if they didn't really need it, until eventually I get pissed off at them for taking advantage of me, and they get pissed off at me for getting angry instead of just saying no.
Sums me up pretty darn well. My wife is pure asker. Causes not an insignificant amount of friction in our relationship...although we've both moved a little bit (and I mean little) towards the center of the spectrum over the years.
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