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| Author: | Kirra [ Fri May 13, 2011 5:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Cheating or no? |
Heard this on a podcast of my favorite radio morning show. They had a girl email in that she needed advice. She said she had been married for 10 years and found a condom. Her husband and her don't use them, so she asked him where it came from. His response was that he used them to masturbate. Come on now.... He's cheating right? |
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| Author: | Nitefox [ Fri May 13, 2011 8:20 am ] |
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Watch the movie I Love You Man. |
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| Author: | Kaffis Mark V [ Fri May 13, 2011 9:00 am ] |
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Some people might. However, if that were the case for this guy, this wouldn't be new to her after 10 years. |
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| Author: | Rynar [ Fri May 13, 2011 9:25 am ] |
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He's cheating... But atleast he's smart enough to try not to bring home any diseases. |
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| Author: | Kirra [ Fri May 13, 2011 9:45 am ] |
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Yea, that was thoughtful of him. |
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| Author: | Lex Luthor [ Fri May 13, 2011 10:07 am ] |
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Even if he's not cheating that seems really weird. He should find new hobbies that don't involve condoms with himself/non-wife persons. |
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| Author: | Hopwin [ Fri May 13, 2011 10:13 am ] |
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Rynar wrote: He's cheating... But atleast he's smart enough to try not to bring home any diseases. Or half-children. |
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| Author: | Lex Luthor [ Fri May 13, 2011 10:33 am ] |
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Halflings? |
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| Author: | FarSky [ Fri May 13, 2011 11:01 am ] |
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Hopwin wrote: Rynar wrote: He's cheating... But atleast he's smart enough to try not to bring home any diseases. Or half-children. Half-children, half-what? /dramatichamster |
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| Author: | Kaffis Mark V [ Fri May 13, 2011 11:09 am ] |
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FarSky wrote: Hopwin wrote: Rynar wrote: He's cheating... But atleast he's smart enough to try not to bring home any diseases. Or half-children. Half-children, half-what? /dramatichamster Half adult. |
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| Author: | Hopwin [ Fri May 13, 2011 11:25 am ] |
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Well they wouldn't be step-children right? So to the wife they'd be half-children? I guess I could say bastards. |
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| Author: | Lenas [ Fri May 13, 2011 12:12 pm ] |
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From the information provided, I would not automatically label the guy a cheater. |
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| Author: | LadyKate [ Fri May 13, 2011 12:27 pm ] |
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Kaffis Mark V wrote: Some people might. However, if that were the case for this guy, this wouldn't be new to her after 10 years. I would think this as well. |
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| Author: | Kirra [ Fri May 13, 2011 12:46 pm ] |
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Lenas wrote: From the information provided, I would not automatically label the guy a cheater. What other story could be used to explain the presence of a condom in a marriage that has never used them? |
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| Author: | Lonedar [ Fri May 13, 2011 12:51 pm ] |
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Maybe it's the one he's kept in his wallet since he was 14. |
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| Author: | darksiege [ Fri May 13, 2011 1:27 pm ] |
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wrapped or open? Lubricated or unlubricated? if open and unlubricated... maybe his heroin dealer just ran out of balloons... |
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| Author: | Vindicarre [ Fri May 13, 2011 2:26 pm ] |
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Lenas wrote: From the information provided, I would not automatically label the guy a cheater. Ditto |
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| Author: | Micheal [ Fri May 13, 2011 2:29 pm ] |
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I agree with Lenas and Vindi here, on the basis of innocent until proven guilty. That is one interesting piece of circumstantial evidence though. |
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| Author: | Kirra [ Fri May 13, 2011 2:42 pm ] |
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I don't get it? Except for maybe DS's explanation. If he is using heroin then that's a reason to lie. But why else would he have a condom? And if he did just have it in his wallet as something to have, why lie? What circumstantial evidence Micheal? |
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| Author: | Midgen [ Fri May 13, 2011 2:44 pm ] |
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Not really enough information. I would think there would have to be some other indications that there were problems in the relationship besides the condom if there was cheating going on. That said, it surely is very suspicious. |
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| Author: | Vindicarre [ Fri May 13, 2011 2:47 pm ] |
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Kirra wrote: I don't get it? Except for maybe DS's explanation. If he is using heroin then that's a reason to lie. But why else would he have a condom? And if he did just have it in his wallet as something to have, why lie? What circumstantial evidence Micheal? The condom is circumstantial evidence. There is more than one explanation for why he would have it. The fact that you're looking for a "reason to lie" says something about where you are beginning the inquiry, and it isn't a place that allows for him telling the truth. |
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| Author: | Kirra [ Fri May 13, 2011 2:56 pm ] |
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So, you think she made him lie because she confronted him with the condom? Just curious as to why he might have a condom. Seems to me that if it was innocent he could just tell the truth? |
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| Author: | Vindicarre [ Fri May 13, 2011 2:57 pm ] |
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Again, why are you saying he lied? That's not what you wrote in the OP. In the OP you wrote that she asked and he answered. |
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| Author: | Kirra [ Fri May 13, 2011 3:05 pm ] |
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True, she asked he answered.. I was just wondering if his answer was a lie because no man would ever masturbate with a condom. I don't know if men do...the girl on the radio didn't either, so she was asking for advice as to whether it might be the truth or if consensus was that it was a lie he told out of desperation when confronted. |
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| Author: | Micheal [ Fri May 13, 2011 3:09 pm ] |
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Rule 34 - google masturbating with condoms Yes, it does happen. |
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