My top 10 kitchen items:
1.
Calphalon Katana 8" chef knifeI love this knife. A lot of other people love this knife. You may not. Find a knife this is a joy to use. Check out Henckles, Wusthoff, Sabatier, Shun, Global. Don't get one of the ones that in a plastic clamshell next to the locking display, those are much lower quality and mostly there to capitalize on the manufacturers name. Don't get a set, you need an 8" chef to start, and then a paring knife.
2.
Staub grill panNew purchase, but I love it. This one is huge and heavy, enameled cast iron. You could get a good non-stick one for lots less, but it will warp and need replacing. This one will last forever.
3.
OXO peelerCheap peelers shred your food. This one feels great in the hand and the blade is removable and replaceable.
4.
MicroplaneFantastic stuff. Grate hard cheese, zest citrus, and pulp garlic.
5.
RSVP measuring cups and
AMCO measuring spoonsit's really worth getting the heavy stainless measuring cups and spoons, the labels wash off the plastic ones, leaving you wondering 'is this a half cup or a third?'. It's also worth getting the expanded set with the 2/3 and 3/4 cup measures.
6.
Emeril Non-stick SkilletEggs need non-stick. Nothing else does.
7.
Calphalon 8qt stockpotThis is what I was talking about with the heavy pans. I had a cheap stock pot and kept scorching my chili, this one never has.
8.
Tramontina 12" SauteAnother heavy pan, note this this isn't non-stick. You can get a non-stick one, but you'll need to replace it about every 2 years.
9.
Zyliss can openerNo sharp edges on can lids! Yay!
10.
Flippers, turners, stirers, and grabbersPick the ones you like best, these are: Chef'n SwitchIt, Williams Sonoma silicone, old fashioned wooded spoon, CuisPro silicone locking tongs, OXO silicone flipper
Obviously there are some names that you can look for. OXO, Zyliss, and Calphalon are heavily represented in my kitchen. Easily 90% of my cooking could be done with just the items on this list. Other stuff to add would be a cutting board (not textured glass; plastic or wood is fine) a box or rotary grater, a sauce pan, a wisk, cake pans and sheet pans, hand and stand mizers, bowls, and storage. I also really love my salt and pepper grinder. Whatever you get, remember that the good stuff lasts longer than the cheap stuff and is more enjoyable to use.