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| Author: | Jasmy [ Mon Oct 31, 2016 12:45 am ] |
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My husband is 67 years old. He was a Marine in Viet Nam. He has worked hard his entire adult life to provide for his family and make sure we were taken care of... Friday night he was fine although he said he didn't feel well. He is in the ICU tonight with multi organ failure and in a coma...he will not last more than a few days. I have no idea where to go from here... |
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| Author: | Raell [ Mon Oct 31, 2016 1:54 am ] |
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Forward, you keep moving forward. |
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| Author: | Müs [ Mon Oct 31, 2016 9:55 am ] |
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Raell wrote: Forward, you keep moving forward. This is really the only choice. You do what you have to do. I am terribly sorry for your impending loss, and you have my deepest condolences. |
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| Author: | FarSky [ Mon Oct 31, 2016 10:17 am ] |
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I'm so sorry, Jasmy. Love to you. *hugs* |
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| Author: | Lenas [ Mon Oct 31, 2016 11:58 am ] |
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So sorry
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| Author: | Serienya [ Mon Oct 31, 2016 1:06 pm ] |
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. |
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| Author: | Vladimirr [ Tue Nov 01, 2016 12:50 pm ] |
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Sorry Jasmy... I'm really sorry. |
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| Author: | Kaffis Mark V [ Tue Nov 01, 2016 12:58 pm ] |
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My heart goes out to you, Jasmy. |
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| Author: | Micheal [ Tue Nov 01, 2016 1:26 pm ] |
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Heartfelt condolences Jasmy. |
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| Author: | Rynar [ Tue Nov 01, 2016 10:03 pm ] |
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I am so sorry Jasmy. My prayers are with you and your family. |
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| Author: | Jasmy [ Wed Nov 02, 2016 12:52 am ] |
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Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. He came out of the coma sometime during the night. He was awake and able to talk to me a little. My son came just before noon and had a nurse call the doctor. He said probably no longer than 24 hours, maybe a bit more. My son and my step-son are spending the night with him. I wanted to stay but I forgot my insulin and I have two dogs at home that needed me. As I was leaving tonight, he held my hand and told me he loved me... |
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| Author: | Mookhow [ Wed Nov 02, 2016 12:35 pm ] |
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I'm sorry Jasmy. 
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| Author: | darksiege [ Wed Nov 02, 2016 4:43 pm ] |
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I am sorry for your impending loss Jasmy. And like was said above: you go forward. You may go with a lot of uncertainty, and a lot of sadness, but you go forward and fill it with more love and kindness. |
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| Author: | Sam [ Wed Nov 02, 2016 8:34 pm ] |
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All I have for you is, hugs. Not much else I can say. |
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| Author: | Jasmy [ Wed Nov 02, 2016 11:26 pm ] |
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He was moved to hospice care this afternoon. I want to bring him home, but my son, my stepson, and brother in law say no. All I need is a nurse to check on him daily...I can do the rest, as I have been since Sept. 21. I just remember my mom asking my dad to let her die at home in her own bed. I want that for my husband of 34 1/2 years. Is that so wrong? |
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| Author: | Raell [ Wed Nov 02, 2016 11:55 pm ] |
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Wrong, no. Just don't take on more than you can handle. I'm sure that is what everyone is afraid of. *hugs* |
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| Author: | Jasmy [ Thu Nov 03, 2016 12:22 am ] |
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I have been taking care of him full time since Sept. 21...part time since Aug.27...I have to inject myself every day twice a day so I can do that if needed, I have a blood pressure machine so that's doable, a thermometer is available almost everywhere...anything else a home care nurse can do. My living room is a hospital room already, might as well make use of it. As his wife it is my decision. I will talk to his doctor tomorrow. I think it is in his best interest. |
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| Author: | Jasmy [ Fri Nov 04, 2016 12:17 pm ] |
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2:29 AM November 4, 2016 Rest in peace Bruce...I love you. |
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| Author: | FarSky [ Fri Nov 04, 2016 1:00 pm ] |
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*hugs* |
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| Author: | Sam [ Fri Nov 04, 2016 4:16 pm ] |
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Sorry for your loss. Hope you and your family find peace in coming days. |
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| Author: | Micheal [ Fri Nov 04, 2016 10:11 pm ] |
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Condolences and hugs. |
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| Author: | Talya [ Sat Nov 05, 2016 5:52 am ] |
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I'm so sorry. |
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| Author: | Rynar [ Sat Nov 05, 2016 7:38 am ] |
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My deepest condolences Jasmy. |
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| Author: | Aethien [ Sat Nov 05, 2016 2:29 pm ] |
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I'm very sorry for your loss, Jasmy. I know it wasn't always easy for you, and you were there for him until the very end. |
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| Author: | Raell [ Sat Nov 05, 2016 9:05 pm ] |
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I'm very sorry. |
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