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Everyone is so confrontational lately!
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Author:  Taamar [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Everyone is so confrontational lately!

It's not just on the Glade, but it's pretty noticeable here... almost every thread has at least one person chiming in with 'you used this word wrong' or 'your previous post says otherwise' or 'well, of course you'd think that'. And even agreement only gets you 'well, I'm so glad you approve' or 'I don't care what YOU think'. And when challenged the response is usually 'I have a right to say what I want and you can't stop me'. It's as if deliberately abrasive behaviour is the newest fad.

What's up with this?

Author:  DFK! [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:10 pm ]
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Some possibilities:

1) It is the end of days.
2) The average individual is aggravated and/or depressed by the goings-on in the world.
3) We're all sick of each other.
4) There are no real rules here, so we're all pushing limits.
5) It isn't real but rather your perception
6) Well of course you'd think there's too much confrontation.

Author:  LadyKate [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:19 pm ]
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Yeah, we seem to go in cycles.
I can't speak for everyone but this is the end of summer and the beginning of the school year for a lot of people. Vacations are over, scrambling to get kids ready for school, finances....the Glade tends to be a place where a lot of us let of steam when we're stressed, often unknowingly I think.
Or maybe we're all just hormonal and pregnant?

Author:  Lenas [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:21 pm ]
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Of course YOU would think that.

:lol:

Author:  Hopwin [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:26 pm ]
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How about the simplest... it's freaking HOT outside?

Author:  LadyKate [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:28 pm ]
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Thats true, Hop....isn't there some statistic about heat and aggression?
I'm pretty hot. That explains my aggression. What's your excuse?

Author:  Hokanu [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:31 pm ]
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Lenas wrote:
Of course YOU would think that.

Why are you capitalizing the word you? Are you yelling?

Quote:
:lol:

You're laughter is highly immature. I would think that you would be above this.




All silliness aside.. comfort lowers social boundaries. That and it's damn hot!

Author:  Taamar [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:31 pm ]
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Lenas wrote:
Of course YOU would think that.

:lol:


I was waiting for this.

Author:  Lenas [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:34 pm ]
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Surely you know I jest.


Hokanu wrote:
Why are you capitalizing the word you? Are you yelling?

My INTERNET Tourette's.

Author:  Mookhow [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:35 pm ]
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It's not that hot in Texas, or at least Houston. That's probably because it's rained almost every day in July. -_-

PS And don't call me Shirley.

Author:  Nitefox [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:36 pm ]
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Mookhow wrote:

PS And don't call me Shirley.



Damn it!!!!

Author:  Kaffis Mark V [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:36 pm ]
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I blame the great unifier.

Author:  Hopwin [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:41 pm ]
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LadyKate wrote:
Thats true, Hop....isn't there some statistic about heat and aggression?
I'm pretty hot. That explains my aggression. What's your excuse?

Mine isn't so much an excuse as it is a state of being: I'm an ******* :D

Author:  LadyKate [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:43 pm ]
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Hopwin wrote:
LadyKate wrote:
Thats true, Hop....isn't there some statistic about heat and aggression?
I'm pretty hot. That explains my aggression. What's your excuse?

Mine isn't so much an excuse as it is a state of being: I'm an ******* :D


Daddy?? :D

Spoiler:

Author:  Echo [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 3:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Everyone is so confrontational lately!

It's been that way here for ages. I've seen nothing new or unusual. You practically have to be a lawyer to satisfy some people's anal retentiveness here.

Author:  Taskiss [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 3:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Everyone is so confrontational lately!

Taamar wrote:
It's not just on the Glade, but it's pretty noticeable here... almost every thread has at least one person chiming in with 'you used this word wrong' or 'your previous post says otherwise' or 'well, of course you'd think that'. And even agreement only gets you 'well, I'm so glad you approve' or 'I don't care what YOU think'. And when challenged the response is usually 'I have a right to say what I want and you can't stop me'. It's as if deliberately abrasive behaviour is the newest fad.

What's up with this?

"do unto others as they do unto others" is my motto. I'm fairly oblivious to others behavior most of the time, but if I notice someone being deliberately abrasive I lob one at them and watch what they do with it... and if they lob it back, well, then it's on.

I learned years ago that folks don't stop being pricks just 'cause you ask them nicely to. You gotta make them tired of it, then they'll quit.

And, I don't get tired. ;)

Author:  Nitefox [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 3:59 pm ]
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Echo wrote:
You practically have to be a lawyer to satisfy some people's anal retentiveness here.



This.

Author:  Midgen [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 4:05 pm ]
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Echo wrote:
It's been that way here for ages. I've seen nothing new or unusual. You practically have to be a lawyer to satisfy some people's anal retentiveness here.


Except that doesn't work either... does it RD ? :p

Author:  Nevandal [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 4:13 pm ]
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Recently I've been feeling like I don't want to be "friends" with people that say and do stupid sh*t, so instead of ignoring them for the sake of being amicable, I'd rather call them out so they stop pissing me off. Yeah, I'm being an a**hole, and I don't care....and it doesn't help that my mother is being a hypomanic c*nt, and my nighshift job sucks so bad I hope I develop Alzheimer's just so I can meet some new people. Hahaha. I can't decide what movie my work life resembles more closely. Office Space, or What's Eating Gilbert Grape?

So yeah...it's easier to just snap at the first sight of opposition so things don't continue to get worse later.


Sorry :|

On the other hand I've also been feeling like my new found blatant honesty has been extremely advantageous for me recently.

Author:  Taskiss [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 4:37 pm ]
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Nevandal wrote:
On the other hand I've also been feeling like my new found blatant honesty has been extremely advantageous for me recently.

Another thing I learned years ago - the Truth Will Set You FREE!, and I'm about the freest SOB you're likely to meet!

I do try to color inside the lines, but sometimes, you just gotta eat the crayon.

Author:  Taamar [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 4:39 pm ]
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Taskiss wrote:

I do try to color inside the lines, but sometimes, you just gotta eat the crayon.


May I sig quote this?

Author:  Nevandal [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 4:40 pm ]
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Haha Taskiss that's good stuff.

Author:  Hokanu [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 4:40 pm ]
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Taskiss wrote:
Nevandal wrote:
On the other hand I've also been feeling like my new found blatant honesty has been extremely advantageous for me recently.

Another thing I learned years ago - the Truth Will Set You FREE!, and I'm about the freest SOB you're likely to meet!

I do try to color inside the lines, but sometimes, you just gotta eat the crayon.


LOL

Author:  Hokanu [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 4:41 pm ]
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Taamar wrote:
Taskiss wrote:

I do try to color inside the lines, but sometimes, you just gotta eat the crayon.


May I sig quote this?

I think this should go in everyone's sig! Hell it should be the Glade Mission Statement.

Author:  darksiege [ Wed Jul 28, 2010 4:45 pm ]
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Taskiss wrote:

I do try to color inside the lines, but sometimes, you just gotta eat the crayon.


I would like to recommend this to replace "wretched hive of scum and villainy" as the motto for hellfire as well.

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