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LK, can you rephrase your analogies in terms that are more explicitly sexual in nature please? :lol:

LK, can you rephrase your analogies in terms that are more explicitly sexual in nature please? :lol:

Hopwin wrote:

LK, can you rephrase your analogies in terms that are more explicitly sexual in nature please? :lol:

Hopwin, can you stop being creepy?

The most important lesson any man can learn about women is that a .300 batting average is considered fantastic in baseball.

Many people look for a BMW when they can only afford a Toyota.
Or they shop for a Toyota, which is within their means, but what they REALLY need for their lifestyle is a Subaru Outback.
Or they try to buy a standard without realizing they have no idea how to drive a stick, and would be better off with an automatic.

That's because guys like hot chicks, and women like money. The guy up top has money, and the chick on the bottom has everything else.

Author:	Mookhow [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 9:46 am ]
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Looking for a companion on a dating site is like shopping for a used car at Carmax. You go to the website, fill in the criteria you're looking for. You are then shown a list of matches. The odds of finding a perfect match are almost nil, but you decide what you can or cannot live with. As you look through the list, if you see something that catches your eye, you click the link and read up a bit more. You may decide it wasn't a good fit after all, or you may like what you see. If you are pleased enough, you can fire off a message saying "hey, I wanna check that out". The big difference between dating sites and Carmax, though, is that the cars aren't doing the same thing.

Author:	TheRiov [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 9:58 am ]
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Most dating sites have about a 10:1 Male:Female ratio in my experience. Of all the sites I tried, OKCupid.com yielded the best results. (most detailed information on the individual, most method of comparison, better likelihood of a positive response, and you actually find out enough about the person to strike up an intelligent conversation about something you have in common) OKC also has places you can submit your profile for review by others and have them suggest tweaks about what dealbreakers you might have in your profile, or other things you can do to spruce it up. I actually made a couple of new friends from OKC too. PlentyofFish.com is a wasteland of drug addicts, or those looking to cheat on a spouse, etc. The pay sites are marginally better in that it weeds out some of the people who are there looking to cheat on a spouse. (afraid to use a credit card one would assume, and probably harder to justify to themselves that they're 'just looking')

Author:	LadyKate [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 9:59 am ]
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Many people look for a BMW when they can only afford a Toyota. Or they shop for a Toyota, which is within their means, but what they REALLY need for their lifestyle is a Subaru Outback. Or they try to buy a standard without realizing they have no idea how to drive a stick, and would be better off with an automatic.

Author:	Hopwin [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 10:00 am ]
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LK, can you rephrase your analogies in terms that are more explicitly sexual in nature please?

Author:	Corolinth [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 10:08 am ]
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To be fair, looking for a companion the old fashioned way really isn't much different.

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Author:	bale [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 10:15 am ]
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hey moo, do they have an events & adventures in your town? I've heard good things about it, and it seems meeting people in a casual/fun atmosphere where everyone's participating in an activity they're interested in is a good way to meet genuine people with similar interests

Author:	LadyKate [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 10:19 am ]
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Hopwin wrote: LK, can you rephrase your analogies in terms that are more explicitly sexual in nature please? Sure, that'll be $3.99 a minute, please.

Author:	Khross [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 11:17 am ]
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Hopwin wrote: LK, can you rephrase your analogies in terms that are more explicitly sexual in nature please? Hopwin, can you stop being creepy?

Author:	LadyKate [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 11:29 am ]
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Khross wrote: Hopwin wrote: LK, can you rephrase your analogies in terms that are more explicitly sexual in nature please? Hopwin, can you stop being creepy? Pretty sure he was just jesting, Khross. That's how I took it anyway.

Author:	TheRiov [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 12:04 pm ]
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Khross wrote: Hopwin, can you stop being creepy? Khross, can you rephrase your request in terms that are more explicitly sexual in nature please?

Author:	Diamondeye [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 12:43 pm ]
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I met my wife on an online dating site. The entire concept is an exercise in "accuracy through volume" if you know what I mean.

Author:	Rynar [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 12:50 pm ]
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When I was in my 20's I used match.com as a fool-proof way to slut myself through large volumes of women who had zero chance of ever talking to, or seeing me again if I didn't want them to.

Author:	Stathol [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 1:43 pm ]
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This isn't exactly on-topic, but has anyone tried meetup.com? It's not really a dating site; just a site for finding/creating local meetups with people based on a particular interest. It seems like a neat idea that could supplement your dating efforts. Look at it as primarily a way to just go out, have fun, make friends. But if you should happen to meet someone that you hit it off with, all the better. At least you'll know one thing that you both enjoy doing together. It could also be a good opportunity to diversify your hobbies and interests. Maybe pick a couple of new interests that you don't currently know anything about and start going to meetups. Ex. start going to wine tastings, or whatever. Looks good on the profile page to have multiple, unrelated interests/hobbies. But beyond that, being well-rounded and interested in multiple subjects always helps with the actual dating part.

Author:	Hopwin [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 2:30 pm ]
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I looked at it for my area and there wasn't anything in it Stathol. A shame but not unexpected since people around here just don't seem to get the whole social-media-networking thing.

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Author:	Timmit [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 4:04 pm ]
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I met my wife on a mud.

Author:	Lydiaa [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 6:03 pm ]
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I did the whole dating site thing a couple of years back due to peer pressure. While my friend got a husband out of it, my experience was quite different. Finding a companion is more about luck than statistics, and unfortunately stupid luck not something you can actively control or manipulate >.<

Author:	LadyKate [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 6:41 pm ]
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I know a guy who looked up all the single women within a 50 mile radius of him on MySpace and sent them all a very polite form letter complimenting their looks/education/etc and one person took the bait and they got married 15 months later. True story.

Author:	Corolinth [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 7:12 pm ]
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The most important lesson any man can learn about women is that a .300 batting average is considered fantastic in baseball.

Author:	Rynar [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 7:19 pm ]
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Corolinth wrote: The most important lesson any man can learn about women is that a .300 batting average is considered fantastic in baseball. Yeah, but you aren't considered to be a true power hitter unless you average 30 or more home runs a year. Also, the seasonal RBI metric demonstrates the importance of a strong wing-man.

Author:	Vindicarre [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 7:25 pm ]
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One should never underestimate the importance of a good wing-man. /nod

Author:	Taskiss [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 7:29 pm ]
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I always did better as a wing-man than as the top gun.

Author:	Taamar [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 7:59 pm ]
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LadyKate wrote: Many people look for a BMW when they can only afford a Toyota. Or they shop for a Toyota, which is within their means, but what they REALLY need for their lifestyle is a Subaru Outback. Or they try to buy a standard without realizing they have no idea how to drive a stick, and would be better off with an automatic. That's because Hollywood sets up guys who look like this: to expect to date women like this:

Author:	Rynar [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 8:01 pm ]
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That's because guys like hot chicks, and women like money. The guy up top has money, and the chick on the bottom has everything else.

Author:	LadyKate [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 8:07 pm ]
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There are women who still marry for love and not money, you know.

Author:	Taamar [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 8:09 pm ]
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Rynar wrote: That's because guys like hot chicks, and women like money. The guy up top has money, and the chick on the bottom has everything else. Well yeah, which would be fine if it were only rich guys acting like anything less than a supermodel is beneath them because a plain dorky dude in a move (rich actor playing a non-rich character) ends up with Katherine Effing Heigl (gorgeous woman playing a gorgeous woman). Not that the flip side is any stupider. Don't even get me started on the 'princess' fetish.