Arathain Kelvar wrote:
The kid was ruled to have been removed improperly by a previous court, and has spent 2 years with each household. In one view, that's a wash, in another view, a previous court ruling must be overturned to remove the child from the parent again, setting the bar even higher.
So?
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So once they pass the fitness test they should have equal claim to any child they want? Of course not. They have to have permission to take the child FROM THE PARENTS. This is basic #1 requirement. They don't just go around shopping for a child and claim one. So if the entire premise of the child being eligible for adoption is in question, it seems pretty clear that the burden falls on the adoptive parents.
Clearly not. No one said any such thing.
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For example, in order to go home with my child from the hospital, I pretty much only had to pay my bills, and demonstrate everyone was healthy. If someone else wanted to go home with my child, they would have a much higher hurdle to cross. Why? Because the default is that the child stay with his/her parent.
Simply removing a child from a hospital would be kidnapping without a pre-arranged adoption.
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Now, with that general premise in mind, you have 2 individuals fighting over this child. Parent, non-parent. If all things were equal -----> PARENT.
All things are not, however, equal. When exactly would the condition of "All things are equal" be fulfilled, and what has that to do with this case? They clearly aren't. "All things being equal" is not useful for this sort of issue; that condition is something that could never be determined.