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Author:  Müs [ Tue Mar 15, 2011 11:58 pm ]
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Its not what I thought at first.

http://www.latimes.com/health/boostersh ... 2461.story
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Postpartum depression among mothers is well-known, and medical professionals know to keep an eye out for signs that a mother's blues are affecting her child.

A new study suggests that they should be on the lookout for sad dads too.

Fathers who are depressed are more than three times as likely to spank their 1-year-old children as fathers who are not depressed, reported researchers from the University of Michigan in the April edition of the journal Pediatrics. Depressed dads are also less likely to read to their children at least three times a week. Spanking is associated with negative outcomes for kids; reading is associated with positive ones.

The team looked at interview data from 1,746 fathers of 1-year-old children who took part in the Fragile Families and Child Wellbeing Study. They asked the fathers how often they played with, sang to and read to their kids; whether they had spanked their kids in the last month; and whether they had spoken to their child's medical provider in the past year. The fathers were also assessed for depression.

Seven percent of the fathers had depression. Of those, 41% said they read to their child at least three times a week (compared with 58% of fathers who weren't depressed); 41% also said they had hit their child in the last month (compared with 13% of fathers who weren't depressed.) The researchers noted no difference in reading and playing between depressed and non-depressed fathers.

The good news: They found that 77% of depressed fathers had talked with their children's doctor in the past year. That suggests that pediatricians have an opportunity to intervene when they notice signs of depression in fathers. "Well child visits may be an opportunity to screen fathers for depression and refer them for treatment," the researchers wrote.

In a related commentary, Dr. Craig F. Garfield of Northwestern University and researcher Richard Fletcher wrote, "The field of pediatrics is now faced with finding ways to support fathers in their parenting role much in the same way we support mothers."

Author:  Rynar [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 12:09 am ]
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Who the **** spanks a one year old?

Author:  Vindicarre [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 12:29 am ]
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My thoughts too.

Author:  Arathain Kelvar [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 8:59 am ]
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I swatted my 2-year old on the butt.

I have to say... pointless. I'm not willing to smack him hard enough for him to feel it through a diaper.

Also,

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Depressed dads are also less likely to read to their children at least three times a week.

The researchers noted no difference in reading and playing between depressed and non-depressed fathers.


???

Author:  Kaffis Mark V [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 11:06 am ]
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Arathain, I suspect that's a poorly phrased way of saying that:

There's no difference in the rate of reading at least, say, once a week, between depressed and non-depressed fathers.

There is a difference in the rate of reading at least 3 times a week.

So fathers reads to their kids whether they're depressed or not. But if they're depressed, the ones that do read with their kids do it less frequently.

Author:  Dash [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 1:15 pm ]
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Arathain Kelvar wrote:
I swatted my 2-year old on the butt.

I have to say... pointless. I'm not willing to smack him hard enough for him to feel it through a diaper.



lol this. Really all you need to do in my experience is raise your voice a little, not even yell. If he's being really cranky, a time out. Rarely comes to that though with my almost 3 year old. I can see giving the kid a swat in the butt at 5 to get the point across with minimal pain, but at 1 year old though, you're just a fail parent if you hit your kid.

Author:  Vindicarre [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 3:49 pm ]
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Heheh, yup, Dash. At one until midway through 2 a stern look was capable of making my girls cry; until nearly four, raising my voice could elicit the crying. I think it has a lot to do with expectations and experience. The times I raised my voice were few, and that got the point across.
Now that my oldest if five though...

Author:  Hokanu [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 3:38 pm ]
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A good Kihap will set the young ones straight.

Author:  Arathain Kelvar [ Fri Mar 18, 2011 9:48 am ]
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Hokanu wrote:
A good Kihap will set the young ones straight.


I looked at the picture at your link before I read the description. My first thought was, "that's a Kihap? Wow, Hokanu's an *******, and should never have kids."

Image

Author:  Hokanu [ Fri Mar 18, 2011 9:11 pm ]
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:lol:
COBRA KAI!!!!

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