The Glade 4.0

Never been married, have you.

Why marry and promise ... whatever it is you promise? I promised to forsake all others, to place my partners goals and ambitions equal to my own, and to actually BE a partner, where it takes two yeses to be a yes but only one no to be a no.

All that I promised, because I loved them. That's really what it's all about, it sure isn't about logic or being sensible.

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In time, this too shall pass.

Does being married really have anything to do with it? What about a room mate? Or live in significant other? Brothers and Sisters? Mothers and Fathers? Extended family?

Jesus christ this whole argument is so stupid. Be an adult and look at the toilet before you sit down. If it needs to be lifted, do so. If it needs to be put down, do so. It has nothing to do with mutual respect or how much you love someone or how many times you need to piss per day.

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"None is more important, none more legitimate, than that of rendering the people safe as they are the
ultimate guardians of their own liberty."- Thomas Jefferson

"Yeah, I'm rehearsing my poker face. I don't handle stupid well. *sigh*" - Farsky

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This must be Thursday. I could never get the hang of Thursdays.

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I have never understood this argument from either side. I always check where the seat is at even in the dead of night, if you can't do that you deserve what happens (either falling in or peeing on the seat, either way clean up is needed) Personally I always put the seat and the lid down because I have had things fall in that I don't want to and to keep the dog from using it as a water dish.

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I met this six-year-old child, with this blank, pale, emotionless face and, the blackest eyes... the devil's eyes. I spent eight years trying to reach him, and then another seven trying to keep him locked up because I realized what was living behind that boy's eyes was purely and simply... evil

This thread needs a good /***** to put things in perspective.

Marry whomever you wish for whatever reasons you wish, I'll do the same and one of my reasons will be that they are reasonable.

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"...but there exists also in the human heart a depraved taste for equality, which impels the weak to attempt to lower the powerful to their own level and reduces men to prefer equality in slavery to inequality with freedom." - De Tocqueville

I never knew you were gay. Well, good for you and best wishes for a happy life.

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In time, this too shall pass.

The answer to 'how do you housebreak a guy' is 'You don't'. If having the seat put down is important to you find a seat-putter-downer. If you find a man who is perfect except for the seat thing you decide if you want to keep him and deal with the seat or dump him and try to find someone who matches all of your wants. In the end it's about deciding which things on your list are priorities, and accepting the areas in which the person you love is not absolutely ideal. Keep in mind that he's doing the same thing.

You can't control or change people. You can only pre-select to the best of your ability.