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PostPosted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 11:10 pm 
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Empirical evidence shows that women don't actually select men for their money, regardless of what women say they look for.


Genetic pairing.

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 16, 2010 2:29 am 
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Personally, I'm a little torn on this issue. I don't think there's anything wrong with having a societal archetype for masculinity, but I do think it's wrong to condemn or demean those who, by birth or by choice, don't adhere to it. The dilemma I see is whether it's possible to have the former without the latter.


The standard also varies from culture to culture. During the many conversations I had that day that helped crystallize my position, I did pose a caveat that Latin men are entirely capable of crossing some of our western "Masculine gender role" stereotypes and not seem any less manly for it. The spanish dancer can remain the height of hunkish manliness, the italian hairdresser does a masculine thing making women look beautiful, etc.

Anyway, note that women who cross such gender roles are not in any way considered less feminine...not anymore, anyway. Why can't the strong, masculine man stay home and keep the house clean (and repaired, if he's feeling too feminized!) and look after the kids while his wife brings home money? If both jobs have equal value, why is a man doing that same job looked down upon?

(I'll tell you why in my case - we can't afford for you to stay home, slacker. Get a job! But that really applies to us both.)

I'll tell you why I think this is the case. I believe the movement for equality has been mostly a women movement. Men never accepted that it was okay for themselves to do what women do. They've changed to be more open to viewing women as equals, but that doesn't mean they want to participate in cross gender roles as much as women were looking to do so. Women had a strong reason to desire equality. Men already had their roles. They don't feel the need to change that role, even though women are much more equal now.

Naturally, I think it all goes back to the hunters and gatherers vs the nurtures and caregivers, like seen in all of the animal world. A man is naturally going to be a competitive being, and look to provide for his family first. It's just etched into our brains that it works that way, without even thinking about it. It's worked that way for thousands of years. If people think that's going to change just because we live in a PC world these days, they're nuts. It's like asking why animals mark their territory with urine. It just is what it is. Men have natural traits that they are better at. Women have natural traits that they better at. People love to act like we're all equal at everything just because there's a PC movement for equality. We're still very different, down to our very instincts and DNA. I wish we could just accept our differences and still be equals on a social level.

The entire feminism movement has gone out of hand, like you stated. The number of double standards that have developed on this issue are just outrageous. We want equality, but we still want all of the child support money because when it comes to that, we're only a single mom. Why aren't you an independent woman, like you constantly drill into our ears, when it comes time to go to court? All of the sudden, now you're a poor woman left out to dry because the person that provided for her screwed her over and now it's time for handouts. I'm not saying I'm against child support at all, but I think you get my point on this issue when it comes to those feminist wenches.

What about dating? Generally, men still have to be the hunters (their natural role in this world) to find a mate. Women just sit back and wait, again generally speaking. You sure don't want equals when it comes to that. Women want an alpha male, that is until she goes back onto her feminist movement...then she hates the a-hole, conceded, sexist, prick.

How about education? You want equality, but I bet that doesn't mean giving up that pell grant for being a "single" mother, even though the dad still takes care of the child too. Not every dad is a dead beat dad. Almost all scholarships go to special need
students (minorities and women). I'm sure you'll gladly take those as you preach about how unequal life is.

*sigh* I can't even continue because it'd take too much time to list all of the ways I feel the feminist movement is a completely double standard. Don't take this the wrong way, as I know there are many deserving individuals out there who truly do need all of these things. Not only that, they deserve their child support they get, their scholarships, etc. I'm just speaking to the women who claim things are unequal and that men are the devil. Maybe things aren't yet equal, but they are damn well on their way.
I don't even have time to get into all of the double standards.

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 16, 2010 11:56 am 
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I should also point out that you don't see nearly as much complaint about a lack of female coal miners or garbage collectors as CEOs.

We DO occasionally get the spectacle of women wanting to get into the infantry, but that discussion invariably ends up leading down the road of "combat arms are the best way to become a General".

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What's the purpose of these "femininity points"? Seems anti-feminist to me.


your idea of feminist is quite different to mine my dear.


My idea of feminism is that women should be able to do whatever they want.

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Empirical evidence shows that women don't actually select men for their money, regardless of what women say they look for.


The ability to provide is what woman look for, ya know stability and support and all that wonderful stuff... money is simply a part of that. I'd like to see your empirical evidence, however please note, women are more than those less than working age, going to college... Statistics say that there are more millionair play boy than penniless fiddler playboys, plus the millionairs have batman so they win by default.

Just as men chose different standards for bedding and mating (sometimes having simply no standard for bedding), women are different as well.


From my knowledge, drug dealers who live on the beach tend to get laid the most... Millionaires work all day, not chase women. People with the greatest social exposure to members of the opposite sex have the most options. It's really that simple. It doesn't have to do with money.

Anyways, from the abstract of an empirical study:

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Greater income does not buy more sex, nor more sexual partners.


http://www.nber.org/papers/w10499

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I should also point out that you don't see nearly as much complaint about a lack of female coal miners or garbage collectors as CEOs.


Really?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jenson_v._ ... aconite_Co.

Lois E. Jenson v. Eveleth Taconite Co. was the first class-action sexual harassment lawsuit in the United States, filed in 1988 on behalf of Lois Jenson and other female workers at the EVTAC mine in Eveleth, Minnesota on the state's northern Mesabi Range, which is part of the Iron Range.

It was also made into a major motion picture. North Country.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0395972/


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 18, 2010 12:58 pm 
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So, one lawsuit contradicts DE statement?
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I should also point out that you don't see nearly as much complaint about a lack of female coal miners or garbage collectors as CEOs.


As they weren't suing to become coal miners, the relevance is quite limited.

I would dare say that since it was so unusual as to have been made into a movie, this one lawsuit would lend credence to DE's statement.

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I should also point out that you don't see nearly as much complaint about a lack of female coal miners or garbage collectors as CEOs.


Really?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jenson_v._ ... aconite_Co.

Lois E. Jenson v. Eveleth Taconite Co. was the first class-action sexual harassment lawsuit in the United States, filed in 1988 on behalf of Lois Jenson and other female workers at the EVTAC mine in Eveleth, Minnesota on the state's northern Mesabi Range, which is part of the Iron Range.

It was also made into a major motion picture. North Country.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0395972/


Yes, really. Aside from the fact that sexual harrassment of coal miners has exactly zero to do with what I said, one lawsuit wouldn't disprove it even if it WAS so that a woman could be a coal miner or garbage collector, I didn't say there was NO complaint in those regards, just that it was considerably less than for CEOs.

That's because really, coal mining and garbage collecting and such aren't jobs that people of either sex really do because they either A) have a passion for the work itself or B) because they think they'll get rich. It's done because it pays the bills.

That's not the sort of thing that feminists care about. They care about things like high-paying professional jobs because A) they pay a lot and B) they'll be in a position of power, especially power over men. They see themselves getting those jobs if the world was really fair because no man could do as well as they if it weren't for the "glass ceiling" or whatever.

When it comes to highly physical jobs like coal mining though, it gets a lot harder to argue that, and it's not a job that has any glamour or any potential to sit in an office and give men a hard time. Therefore they don't care nearly as much, especially since it's a losing proposition to argue that with jobs that are primarily about strength and stamina.

Feminism is about perpetuating resentments as long as possible in the same way as racism complaints are. The situation can never be admitted to be equitable, because then not getting what one wants can't be attributed to the big bad evil Male/White Guy/etc. and there's no more reason to be calling for more and more of other peoples' money.

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Feminism is about perpetuating resentments as long as possible in the same way as racism complaints are. The situation can never be admitted to be equitable, because then not getting what one wants can't be attributed to the big bad evil Male/White Guy/etc. and there's no more reason to be calling for more and more of other peoples' money.



I'd agree if you were referring only to Dworkin or McKinnon's style of Feminazism. You're not likely to ever find a "Sex-positive Feminist" with a proverbial chip on her shoulder over the whole thing.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 10:45 am 
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Talya wrote:
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Feminism is about perpetuating resentments as long as possible in the same way as racism complaints are. The situation can never be admitted to be equitable, because then not getting what one wants can't be attributed to the big bad evil Male/White Guy/etc. and there's no more reason to be calling for more and more of other peoples' money.


I'd agree if you were referring only to Dworkin or McKinnon's style of Feminazism. You're not likely to ever find a "Sex-positive Feminist" with a proverbial chip on her shoulder over the whole thing.


I am. "Feminist" necesarily refers to that sort of feminism when not specified otherwise. "Sex-positive feminism" is a qualifier that removes the female-supremacist connotations of "feminism" by itself. "Sex-positive feminism" and "feminism" are incompatible and mutually exclusive so reference to one necessarily precludes reference to the other. In fact, sex positive feminism really needs a better name (one that doesn't include the word feminism at all) because "feminism" is really just proclaiming the supremacy of the female in the same way that, say, white supremacy does. Unforunately there's no better word to be had that I can think of

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Renaming "standard" feminism as "female supremacy," maybe?


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Renaming "standard" feminism as "female supremacy," maybe?


That would work too, sort of. REally though, even in its most acceptable forms "feminism" conveys the idea that the focus should eb on the female, when it really should not be on either sex.

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