The Glade 4.0

Are there any honest, caring people out there?

I really have no real friends I can trust.

Everyone I've put my time and effort into getting to know has turned out to be someone completely different




dishonest.....selfish.....




I am really disgusted with people and their selfish ways.



My only close friend has slept with her best friends husband.


Are all people like this?



I really don't get it.


I don't know anyone in the world to be trustworthy.

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Ron Paul 2012

I still feel that way sometimes too, Nev. Its even worse when I take a good, long, hard look at myself and realize that even I don't live up to my standards of what defines a good person.
I've learned that when it comes to relationships of any kind, the best thing to do is to realize that people will always let you down, but try to be slow to anger and quick to forgive.

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"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." Jesus of Nazareth

these are some of my defining qualities and it's done nothing for me




i'm being lead to believe that selfishness is the only way to get the things you want in life



and i really don't get to know anyone because of that

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Ron Paul 2012

I used to feel that same way.
I went through years of giving and giving and others taking and taking....but I was lucky and had 3 or 4 really good friends who were pretty unselfish.
I found my happy medium when I took an active role in taking responsibility for my own pursuit of happiness and balancing that with my giving personality. Sometimes I give too much and sometimes I take too much but I'm learning.
It's a journey, and you'll find your own way. I can assure you that there are, in fact, decent and unselfish people...they are just hard to find sometimes.
But yeah, to a certain degree you have to be a little selfish.

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"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." Jesus of Nazareth

I'm with you Nev. People lie all the time over the stupidest **** that matters not a whit. I'll forgive the lie but when I offer you total amnesty to just come clean and you don't take advantage, in fact you continue to pile new lies on....

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Yeah, but selfishness that goes to the point of hurting others is not acceptable.

...honestly this friend of mine is the only person I can relate to and get along with as well as we do. And after this, I can't respect even her.

She doesn't know I know about it.

I think she keeps me in the dark about her true nature because she knows I'm honest.

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Ron Paul 2012

Yeah....there's another girl I just had a very similar experience with.

Nothing happened between us and in a way I'm glad it didn't, despite her being the finest looking piece of *** I've seen in 10 years.


Haha.






Someone just put a bullet in my head.

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Ron Paul 2012

*Sigh* Women. I've never met a male pathological liar before.

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Ha! That's the funniest thing I've heard all week!

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"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." Jesus of Nazareth

I'm still laughing.

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“The person who tries to live alone will not succeed as a human being. His heart withers if it does not answer another heart. His mind shrinks away if he hears only the echoes of his own thoughts and finds no other inspiration.” - Pearl S. Buck

It's funny. She is GREAT in all other aspects.


She was screwing another dude at work and thought I didn't know, even though it was plain to see. She kept asking me out, and vice versa...but she keep standing me up, not answering her phone, etc. The f*cked up thing is SHE likes me more than I like her. She came to me. I don't even flirt with her. I just talk to her like a normal person (which is probably why she likes me....she's insanely good looking, all other guys just flirt with her). When confronted, she just kept lying. Even though I have evidence to the contrary. The guy she was screwing posted about it on his Facebook. I don't think she realized that he had a facebook and it was public...hahaha. I have screenshots. I didn't tell her about the facebook thing. I'm just surprised at her audacity and how far she is willing to go to lie about it. It's sad. We get along so well and she wonders why I won't hook up with her. I figured out what her deal was, though....I think she idolizes Kim Kardashian. Stupid b*tch......i hate her....but......her titties sparkle.

We still talk at work, and we both get along very well; I see no point in starting fights or drama at work, ya know?


Lmao...the dude she was f*cking ended up quitting his job, getting a new cellphone and getting rid of his facebook.

Cool guy..would be a great friend, unfortunately due to the circumstances, friendship was not really possible.

I've said it before and I'll say it again. Don't put your meat where you make your bread...especially if that dough is already being pounded.


Anyone have a gun? I mean, I'm joking about the killing myself thing...but at the same time I acknowledge there is no point to life if everyone is like this. What's the point of life if you have to isolate yourself from everyone's bulls**t?

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Ron Paul 2012

You don't have to isolate yourself, you just have to stop giving a **** about who this chick... well... ****.

Lenas, when it comes to pussy, i don't like to share. And if I have to share, it ain't gonna be with someone I have to see 8 hours a day.

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Ron Paul 2012

You aren't sharing, though. You said nothing happened.

Exactly my point.

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Ron Paul 2012

So.. there's really nothing to be mad about.

There's selfish people regardless of their sex.

Guys don't lie to you because....you're a guy.

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Ron Paul 2012

Not everyone is like this. Promise. And the point of your life should never be based on the character flaws or behavior of other people.

Sorry you got crapped on, Nev. I hope you find some nice people soon.

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"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." Jesus of Nazareth

I think you're missing the point.



"nothing happening" = isolation.




It's frustrating.

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Ron Paul 2012

I lent a homeless guy $40 the other day, and he probably bought heroin with it.

Thanks. Me too!

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Ron Paul 2012

So take her up on the offer and hit the **** out of it.

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Holy shitsnacks!

Lent? Um.. I got some bad news for you Lex...

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In time, this too shall pass.

He actually paid me back the last time... but anyways I'm sure the money meant a lot to him and he's a nice guy.

What does this have to do with restoring Nev's faith in humankind?

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"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." Jesus of Nazareth