After you set it up and change your password, here are settings for the iPhone:
Settings > Mail > Add Account >
OtherIncoming/Outgoing Mail Server:
Host Name: mail.gladerebooted.org
User Name:
user@gladerebooted.orgYour phone will try to connect using SSL but it wont work. Tell it to continue without.
Advanced Settings:
Deleted Mailbox > "On the Server" Trash
I found that if I didn't change the advanced delete settings on my phone, deletion didn't work correctly (at all). Your iPhone should now be good to go and will keep read/write/delete in sync with the server.