Talya wrote:
That's exactly what I'm saying, as soon as the victim came forward and asked for the charges to be dropped. That was the graceful way out right there...the opportunity to both save face and money and be done with this, without the burden of another trial and everything else.
You can't drop the charges after he's already been convicted.
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Let's ignore the sound-bite without context because I don't know it. The scary part is--from a purely psychological standpoint, he's right. While a thirteen year old is more woman than girl, and if you don't see exactly what he's talking about as true, then you don't understand men much.
If you think most men see 13 year olds as "more woman than girl" then it's you who doesn't understand men much. He's not right; he's projecting his own desires and the popular culture "men are all horndogs for anything approaching puberty" onto everyone else.
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What do you think is behind the hairless, shaven sluts of the porn industry? Why do they put so much makeup on most of them to ensure they don't look a day over 18? Why does every hollywood starlet start getting facelifts in her thirties and never stop? Whether they admit it or not, it's an animal thing. What's with the recent fascination grown men have with anime girls? The natural sweet spot for the human male libido is puberty through mid-twenties. You might learn otherwise through conformity, but those girls you had crushes on in high-school would still be sexy to you now. It's probably biological...younger is more fertile, more opportunities ahead for contributing to the gene pool. Notice how it isn't the same for women? A 14 year old girl can be hopelessly infatuated with a 45 year old school teacher, they actually let men age in hollywood and we still consider them sexy. Biological again, I guess. An older man is usually better able to provide, and usually just as able to father children.
I think you're confusing the appeal of young women in the older teenager to early-20s category with appeal of young teenagers. I hate to break it to you but no, most men do not find high school girls sexy, even the ones they had crushes on. They find them irritating, unless you're talking about very young men, or the Roman Polanskis of the world.
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So either you're all perverts and we women would be better off forsaking men and becoming lesbians, or we learn to excuse you. Nature made you what she made you. :p
Or, none of that is actually the case.