NephyrS wrote:
If you would like to propose something different for Hellfire and PM one of the mods or even post it in the thread, that would be constructive.
As it is, you're simply criticizing without any suggestions. This is supposed to be a discussion, but you are not providing alternatives.
I made those recommendations. Dash essentially ignored them and did what he wanted, including over-reacting to various circumstances. So I resigned as a mod.
Therefore, I see no reason to believe recommendations would be of any use at this point.
Nephyr wrote:
That said, I am of the opinion that tight and legalistic rules are far less effective than general rules. There is subjectivity, but with an open discussion regarding moderation and a diverse group of moderators, its effect is minimized.
I disagree that subjective rules are in any way optimal. After all, does "Thou shalt not kill" mean I can't defend myself?
Nephyr wrote:
"Don't be an ***" is a pretty clear statement, and it is my experience that most people will know when they have crossed that line, whether they want to admit it or not.
Again, my opinion of someone being an *** is different than yours, and yours different from other people's. Quite reasonably so. This variation prevents uniformity of enforcement and creates an environment where the mods are disliked or mistrusted, in the long run.
Nephyr wrote:
That said, this is where personal responsibility comes in. If you aren't sure whether posting something crosses a line or not, you have two options: either tone it down so that you are sure it's acceptable, or post it as is and accept the consequences like a responsible adult.
Why would I choose either of those options? The better option is to not participate in the forum at all, so that I don't have to constantly wonder whether my conversations will be deemed inappropriate by someone. And, while I know that some individuals would not miss me, I'd like to think the fostering non-participation of members is not something you guys would want.
Nephyr wrote:
I think the internet in general fosters bitterness when people get their wrists slapped because they constantly want to toe the line. If you want to toe the line, that's not a problem, but act like a grownup when you get reprimanded for the times you cross it. And an angry tirade at the person that reprimanded you is rarely productive.
And I disagree. I participate in a number of severely moderated forums and I see very little "bitterness." Instead, I see civil conversations because of 1) actual enforcement of the rules and 2) a ruleset that clearly outlines expectations for behavior in ALL forum areas, or specifically listing those areas to which the rules do not apply.