Rorinthas wrote:
You're a smart lady, LK. Don't buy into the hype that guns are the problem. Sinful people are the problem, you should know better.
That's why I asked for the reminder.
It's just frustrating that there are no easy solutions (or maybe any solutions) to stop this sort of thing....I was talking with one of my friends who is staying with another women in the projects downtown and she was telling me about some 8 year old kids trying to blow up the compound by lighting the gas lines with matches.....the parent's beat the **** out of them, but they will be back there doing it tomorrow. She said most of the kids in the projects are literally throw-away kids. They get a beating every now and then, but no one reads to them or plays with them, the kids raise each other. There is no food in the house because the parents sell the foodstamps for drugs, cellphones, etc. The only meals these kids eat are the ones they get at school, IF they go to school...many kids don't even go to school and no one shows up to find them. They learn to beg, borrow, steal, or beat the hell out of someone else to get what they need. She and her roommate are having problems with a 200lb lady with a baby and 5 kids who keep strong arming their way into their apt for their shower and their air-conditioning because they haven't had power or water in quite some time....can't/won't pay the bill so they literally shove neighbors out of their doorways to get in. No one calls the police for stuff like this, it's just the way it is there....and these kids will grow up uneducated with this survival of the fittest mentality and wind up shooting each other as teens or adults.
We talked about that situation last year when I called the police about that woman beating her child and my friend told me that it really is just a cultural difference and that the only thing I would accomplish by trying to prevent one of these beatings for these kids would be that I would wind up getting a beating myself, and the parents would beat the child even harder for "causing them problems"...basically if I tried to intervene, they would just take it out on the kid worse later.
Her solution? Make abortions more readily available in lower economic areas like ghettos and projects because if they were, these women wouldn't be having these kids in the first place.
When I expressed how apalling the whole situation was and surely there are other alternatives, she told me that I live in "wonderbreadland" where I enjoy all of the privileges of being white and living in suburbia...she calls me her "little forest fairy" because I'm so naive.
Is this really the way life is?