Müs wrote:
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she sexually touches the kids,
How is this allowed to continue? I'm surprised the school isn't being sued by the parents for *NOT* kicking her out.
IDK about other states, but parents
first action with this behavior can not be to sue a school for a child. Let me rephrase that a
Public School for someone elses child really. Plus, it would be a district not the school. Technically they can, but it really won't do them any good. They would have to go directly through the parent of said child for that. They can go to our school board meetings and file complaints and if enough complaints arise then the child can be removed. I am the one telling the parents when they come to me to write letters to our special ed director and to go to the school board meetings, but they never do, some do but not many. We have plenty of parents who complain, but not enough to follow proper procedure and go where I tell them to go. Sorry to have say this, but we are lucky in my district if most parents know where our school board meetings are held, not to mention what they do.
Remember I don't get a choice about what children I get in my class. I get all your masses because we are public and if we follow proper procedure with the child and paper work other parents can't sue us. Again they can try, but it won't do them any good. We don't control the kid, we just recognize her individual rights as all the other kids. Sure we have parents that threaten, but after they talk to our district lawyer, he let's them know that it really is easier to go directly through harassment with the child's parent. They can try, but we have so much documentation on this particular kid and what we do to protect ourselves they wouldn't win, so you file the lawsuit against the parent is a much easier and simpler option.
As for suing the kids mother, our parents have no money for lawyers and they can't even take time off to come to a parent conference meetings, so they aren't going to spend the time to sit in court for a lawsuit. It is a shame that not more can be done about it. But the higher ups don't care! You know why? They don't have to deal with her. I do, the kids do, and our poor assistant principal who is a tough of nails woman can't even deal with her anymore.
You know the irony of the suing thing you mentioned was that the mother who's daughter this is that said it is "inconvenient for me to have her in another school." This was the first parent meeting she showed up to in like 3 years because we pretty much forced her hand to come and sign papers or we were going to send her kid regardless to the ES room and then would have to go to due process with her for neglecting to sign legal Emotional Support IEP docs.
It is a crappy system and I have more or less many crappy parents in my district no one ever wins and until there is a better answer for dealing with these situations then it will stay this way sadly. Personally, I don't want to be the person to do it either. I am happy in my own classroom when my door closes and I can block out for the most part crappy teaching, crappy higher ups, and crappy parents. Well not today. To prove my point entirely I am typing this from home today because a crappy parent sent their sick child to school, even though she is hacking up a lung on everyone in class, including me, and now I am at home today with a bad cold. Can i say something though to that parent? Can I reprimand them? NO! because I will have a the district come down on me. But that doesn't stop a day of pay lost because I had to stay home and take a sick day. That kid just goes on her merry way hacking all over the kids when they even ask me to move their seats.
Oh well