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I don't have much else for this thread other than to say that the atheistic posts, even though I don't really disagree with them, are what give people such a bad taste about atheism. They all kind of have the tone of "believers are 'tards." My main issue with religion is the sense of judgement I get from people when they know you're a non-believer, and I increasingly hate to make believers feel the same in reverse.


It get it because I got the same thing growing up in a religious rural little town with parents who didn't attend church, where the leading question was "what church" not "Do you know that God loves you and sent Jesus to die for you." I never want to be one of those people, and I still frown on that thing and most organized denominations. Personally I think religion (people trying to do stuff to get to God) doesn't work. What I see is faith that God is, and a personal relationship with Him that makes the difference in my life. Because I have that personal relationship with Him, It causes me to act a certain way.

I've spoken with a couple posters on here about drinking, and the fact that I don't do it anymore. It's not because a preacher thumped me over the head about it, its because I have a personal relationship with God which is more important than the alcohol and as a result I no longer have the desire to do it. I would have never called my drinking heavy -nor would a lot of people, but it was my way of coping with the perceived shortcomings of my life. When God started to work in my life, and I could start to trust him to work things out, I didn't need it anymore.

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It's kinda hard to deal with people who believe an invisible being is in control of everything, and dictates everything in their life (and thus your life). I don't mean to be insulting or down right mean about it, but if you had a grownup who still believed his invisible childhood friend was real, or a grownup who was never told Santa wasn't real.......what is the appropriate way to deal with that without coming off as insulting? At some point, we have to say it's kinda messed up. And I'm not sure there is a nice way to put that.


Yeah, that's the mental reaction I get.

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I would argue that there is no historical evidence or evidence of changed lives that would support those analogies where there is for the God in which I trust. However people should still be free to believe in Santa or their invisible friend.

I get it, there's a lot of not nice people who profess to know God and don't apparently have a clue what that means. There's probably more of them than there are people like me. However its not appropriate to say since 85% of something is a certain way therefore 100% is.

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I don't mean to be insulting or down right mean about it, but if you had a grownup who still believed his invisible childhood friend was real, or a grownup who was never told Santa wasn't real.......what is the appropriate way to deal with that without coming off as insulting? At some point, we have to say it's kinda messed up. And I'm not sure there is a nice way to put that.

Granting, for the sake of argument, your belief that God is a fantasy, I think the way to approach religion would be to think of it like a mass placebo. Sometimes the placebo effect is good, and sometimes it's bad. In the case of religion, the positive placebo effects are a sense of peace, comfort, strength and belonging for billions of people, as well as a call to kindness, compassion, honesty, responsibility, etc. on both the personal and national scales. The negative placebo effects of religion, of course, are often the oppression of women and non-believers, war, terrorism, etc. In combatting the latter, I think it's worthwhile to try to avoid undermining the former.


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In combatting the latter, I think it's worthwhile to try to avoid undermining the former.


It seems more desirable to come off as a sanctimonious prick rather than just disagreeing where no harm has been made. Or, as Lenas said, the "believers are 'tards" attitude will prevail.

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In combatting the latter, I think it's worthwhile to try to avoid undermining the former.


It seems more desirable to come off as a sanctimonious prick rather than just disagreeing where no harm has been made. Or, as Lenas said, the "believers are 'tards" attitude will prevail.


"Where no harm has been made..." ...except the more that I read, the more I am convinced that belief in the supernatural itself causes an incredible amount of harm across a wide swath of human endeavor. The more instances of this I see, the more I see believers as both victims of an evolutionary mistake, and occasionally perpetrators of a large number of ancient & ongoing injustices.

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Um yes, the belief is the point. So you're pretty much in no position to say "wow." Furthermore, seeing as many religions have teachings that are ostensibly from a higher power, one or more might actually be correct. You really don't know.


If I'm in no position to say "wow," neither are you. The belief is certainly the point for you, but you cannot speak for the entirety of religious people. For some, the ritual is the point, for others the dogma, for others the history, for others the social construct. There are a lot of things that go into religion, so much so that you cannot examine the effects of the institution without disassociating it from any one particular benefit or flaw.

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However, religion does far, far more than just speculate about what happens when people die. It also persecutes non-members, and it reinforces a code of conduct which in many cases is antiquated and harmful. The problem in most cases is that most religions relate items of faith as items of fact. It's one thing to express a belief in what happens when you die, or why we're here, or in matters of morality, it's another to express it as fact.


Except that it really doesn't do any of these things. Persecution mostly is because of people and happens for a lot of reasons. As for "antiquated" or "harmful" no, pretty much not. this is entirely of the opinion of people who don't want to follow it.


You can't claim religion doesn't enforce moral conduct when the ten commandments exist. You also can't claim it when the Catholic church persecutes homosexuality, and condemns abortion.

The Catholic church's view on homosexuality, in particular, is so laughably backwards that I'm surprised that you even attempt to make the point that their views are not antiquated or harmful. You can choose not to take part in some of the more radical or grisly sides of what the church does, but you cannot ignore that the church does do them.

As for the other points about believing in invisible friends and the like, most of that is just insensitive mocking, and should be taken as such. Most people have some things that cannot be proven that they believe in, from simple superstition to religion. The issue isn't necessarily that believing in something you can't prove is bad, but that there is an attempt to attach some sort of social stigma to doing so.

The reason, as best I can tell, for that attempt is that anti-religion crusaders tend to think that's the way you fight against the evils of the church, which is sort of laughable. The vast majority of people who believe don't have a horse in the child-abusing, gay-bashing, right-denying race of any church they're a part of. They just have their faith, and possibly enjoy the local community that faith engenders. The election of a new Pope has very little impact on American Catholics, unless, of course, they choose to be impacted.

This is why I argue consistently for the recognition that the church does both good and bad, much in the same way I argue that America does both good and bad to patriots. While you can perceive any organization as good or evil, the reality is that most organizations are both, and that you can certainly join such an organization for all the good it does, that doesn't preclude you from speaking out against the evil. The Catholic church, in particular, has a very, very long-standing policy of sticking their fingers in their ears and singing songs whenever anyone wants to talk to them about the awful things that people are doing in their name. That particular policy is something I abhor. The child abuse was perpetrated by men, and I prefer to hold those men responsible for their acts, rather than the church itself. However, I can hold the church responsible for what they've done to protect those men and ignore the problem.

If a religion I was a part of was being used, either directly or indirectly, to commit unspeakable acts upon children, I would be loudly crying to condemn and castigate those who would perpetrate such things in the name of that which I believed in. The fact that the Catholic church doesn't defend its own faith in such a manner is something that strikes many, particularly non-believers, as wrong. Whether you are of the faith or not, that is a criticism that the Catholic church should not be able to ignore.


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Maybe you think that external criticism is irrelevant. I don't. But in any case, "you aren't Catholic, so butt out" is really bizarre card for you, in particular, to play. That's a two-way street, you know.



Just a related side point: Diamondeye, as a Lutheran, is about as Catholic as I am.

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It's kinda hard to deal with people who believe an invisible being is in control of everything, and dictates everything in their life (and thus your life). I don't mean to be insulting or down right mean about it, but if you had a grownup who still believed his invisible childhood friend was real, or a grownup who was never told Santa wasn't real.......what is the appropriate way to deal with that without coming off as insulting? At some point, we have to say it's kinda messed up. And I'm not sure there is a nice way to put that.


Yeah, that's the mental reaction I get.


Exactly my sentiments as well.


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In combatting the latter, I think it's worthwhile to try to avoid undermining the former.


It seems more desirable to come off as a sanctimonious prick rather than just disagreeing where no harm has been made. Or, as Lenas said, the "believers are 'tards" attitude will prevail.


"Where no harm has been made..." ...except the more that I read, the more I am convinced that belief in the supernatural itself causes an incredible amount of harm across a wide swath of human endeavor. The more instances of this I see, the more I see believers as both victims of an evolutionary mistake, and occasionally perpetrators of a large number of ancient & ongoing injustices.


This.

How many people have died of Aids because some religious leader says that condoms are bad?
How much progress have we lost in stem cell research because some religious leader says that a cell is a "person" with a "soul"?
How many people have died in the middle east because differing religious leaders both believe that this land is sacred and promised to them by "god"?
How many people have blown themselves up because they believe that they will get 72 virgins?
How many people were killed because two sects within Christianity couldn't bear to have the other control their country?


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How many people have died of Aids because some religious leader says that condoms are bad?
Fallacy.
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How much progress have we lost in stem cell research because some religious leader says that a cell is a "person" with a "soul"?
Fallacy.
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How many people have died in the middle east because differing religious leaders both believe that this land is sacred and promised to them by "god"?
Fallacy.
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How many people have blown themselves up because they believe that they will get 72 virgins?
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How many people were killed because two sects within Christianity couldn't bear to have the other control their country?
Fallacy.

Apparently nothing in your previous was contributory, but I'll answer your questions in order:

1. Less than the United States Government has killed by saying Acetaminophen and Hydrocodone are good but LSD is bad.
2. None, since the viability of fetal stem cells for research and practical applications is still questionable; all currently working and headed-toward-use stem cell therapies use Adult stem cells.
3. No more and no less than if no one ever thought up a god. They aren't fight over belief; they're fighting over resources and have been for as long as people ran into different people in that stretch of desert.
4. Single digits. Suicide bombers don't martyr themselves for the virgins; they martyr themselves for the demagogues.
5. Less than Pol Pot, Mao, and Stalin individually killed or ordered killed during the suppression of religion and non-state approved ideas in their countries.

Stop trying to win an argument the facts don't support. Like I said, you need a sense of scale; and you need to learn to abstract things. You're so hung-up on religion that you've become too blind to notice that the problem isn't belief; the problem is demagoguery abusing belief.

People are the problem. Religious and secular are just more labels for people.

And guess what ...

History says the religious people did a less bad job overall.

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1. Less than the United States Government has killed by saying Acetaminophen and Hydrocodone are good but LSD is bad.


LSD is dangerous. Acetaminophen generally is not, except in specific situations. (Ibuprofen is better! I can drink with it!) Also, this is non sequitur.

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Only because we haven't been able to research it as much as we should. And it's only one example of how religion constantly interferes with the advancement of human knowledge.

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3. No more and no less than if no one ever thought up a god. They aren't fight over belief; they're fighting over resources and have been for as long as people ran into different people in that stretch of desert.


They'd have moved to more fertile ground millenia ago if their holy traditions didn't hold that desert sacred.

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4. Single digits. Suicide bombers don't martyr themselves for the virgins; they martyr themselves for the demagogues.


Semantics. In both cases, it's religion.

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5. Less than Pol Pot, Mao, and Stalin individually killed or ordered killed during the suppression of religion and non-state approved ideas in their countries.


Tu quoque. Attrocities by someone who is not religious do not in any way absolve religion of the constant violence it inspires. We are more violent as a species with religion than we are without.

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How many people have died of Aids because some religious leader says that condoms are bad?
How much progress have we lost in stem cell research because some religious leader says that a cell is a "person" with a "soul"?
How many people have died in the middle east because differing religious leaders both believe that this land is sacred and promised to them by "god"?
How many people have blown themselves up because they believe that they will get 72 virgins?
How many people were killed because two sects within Christianity couldn't bear to have the other control their country?


You want more? Read Sex & God by Darrel Ray.

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Not to mention that the cult of personality built up by Lenin and later exploited by Stalin has all of the trappings of a state religion with Lenin as the national god.

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LSD is dangerous. Acetaminophen generally is not, except in specific situations. (Ibuprofen is better! I can drink with it!) Also, this is non sequitur.


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There have been no documented human deaths from an LSD overdose. It is physiologically well tolerated and there is no evidence for long-lasting physiological effects on the brain or other parts of the human organism.


Can't say the same about Acetaminophen (Paracetamol), which accounts for the most common cause of acute liver failure in the United States/Kingdom and is one of the most common causes of poisoning world-wide. Not sure why you chose such a bad example.


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Acetaminophen's therapeutic level is very near the toxic level.

If one takes it for a day or two, that person can take up to four grams (4,000 mg or eight 500 mg tablets) per day.

If one takes it for a week or more, the maximum daily dose drops to about 2.7 grams (2,700 mg or roughly five 500 mg tablets).

Toxic levels lead to one of the most common causes of liver failure in the industrialized world.

Most Hydrocodone has acetaminophen in it to make it toxic. This is what I was told in about five different classes on pain medicine.

Non-steroidal antiinflammatory drugs (eg. Ibuprofen, Naproxen, Vioxx, Celebrex) all cause elevation of blood pressure and hence increased risk of morbidity and mortality.

::Now returns you all to your previous argument::

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Talya wrote:
LSD is dangerous. Acetaminophen generally is not, except in specific situations.



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Can't say the same about Acetaminophen (Paracetamol), which accounts for the most common cause of acute liver failure in the United States/Kingdom and is one of the most common causes of poisoning world-wide. Not sure why you chose such a bad example.


First of all, I didn't pick the example, Khross did.
Secondly, I said "specific situations..." such as overdose or chronic use, or combining with other substances that severely strain the liver (like alcohol.) OTC painkillers are meant for single use, once in a while, to deal with short-term pain. If you're taking painkillers for something that's going to last longer than even a few days, you need to deal with the cause, not the symptom, or go see a doctor for something more sustainable.

LSD, however, has some severe documented dangers.

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These people didn't "go crazy." LSD isn't likely to make someone go insane or become psychotic. It can interact with other drugs and cause psychotic symptoms (especially other drugs that work on neurotransmitters). Some people with histories of certain mental illnesses, such as schizophrenia or psychosis, may have their symptoms exacerbated on LSD. It may also speed the onset of these illnesses if one was already going to develop.


Heavy LSD users can also develop profound social problems, completely ruin their sleep cycles and lose interest in eating and personal hygiene. They become uninterested in participating in the world going on around them and feel completely disconnected from everybody else. The real problem is that because they're taking LSD so often, they think the LSD is creating the illusion that their life is a mess instead of recognizing that it really is a mess.
http://science.howstuffworks.com/lsd5.htm

Now, Alcohol can cause many of the same types of issues. I'm not pointing out LSD should be banned, I'm explaining the reason for the ban. Mind-alteration is considered far more dangerous than physical side effects. Should it be? I don't know. I don't think so. I'm just saying, Acetaminophen is not going to cause you to attempt to fly out the window.

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Taken a step further, nearly all of the peace and happiness provided by religion is a sham. You're finding momentary relief from stress that stems from guilt over failing to live up to the dictates of your religion. Remove religion, and you don't have the stress in the first place.


Pretty incredibly presumptuous of you to assume you understand where the stress is coming from. Even if the stress was entirely external, it's still pretty incredibly presumptuous of you to assume it's based on religion alone. If you removed religion entirely, it would immediately be replaced with another set of societal values. For example, murder isn't frowned upon because it says so in the ten commandments.


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Pretty incredibly presumptuous of you to assume you understand where the stress is coming from. Even if the stress was entirely external, it's still pretty incredibly presumptuous of you to assume it's based on religion alone. If you removed religion entirely, it would immediately be replaced with another set of societal values. For example, murder isn't frowned upon because it says so in the ten commandments.


And so murderers may still be stressed out. I think i can live with that.

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It's kinda hard to deal with people who believe an invisible being is in control of everything, and dictates everything in their life (and thus your life). I don't mean to be insulting or down right mean about it, but if you had a grownup who still believed his invisible childhood friend was real, or a grownup who was never told Santa wasn't real.......what is the appropriate way to deal with that without coming off as insulting? At some point, we have to say it's kinda messed up. And I'm not sure there is a nice way to put that.


Yeah, that's the mental reaction I get.


Exactly my sentiments as well.


Really? That's such a pretentious position, it's rather shocking. So you believe something, and someone believes something else. OMG!!! What a weirdo!

They have just as much confidence in their position as you do in yours. Guess what? One of you is wrong, and it doesn't have to be them.

Moreover, it doesn't make sense. Who gives a crap? On the one hand, Jesus will save us, so a nice guy will try to spread the word to save people. On the other hand, Jesus doesn't exist, so a nice guy will... what? Mind his business?


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Pretty incredibly presumptuous of you to assume you understand where the stress is coming from. Even if the stress was entirely external, it's still pretty incredibly presumptuous of you to assume it's based on religion alone. If you removed religion entirely, it would immediately be replaced with another set of societal values. For example, murder isn't frowned upon because it says so in the ten commandments.


And so murderers may still be stressed out. I think i can live with that.


FAIL. Ok, let's assume you are right about religion. There is no God. Where did any society's religious "rules", including those regarding homosexuality, come from? People. And you expect those rules not to exist if religion is removed?


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FAIL. Ok, let's assume you are right about religion. There is no God. Where did any society's religious "rules", including those regarding homosexuality, come from? People. And you expect those rules not to exist if religion is removed?


Anthropology and evolutionary biology have shown* that those rules didn't exist prior to religion adding them, and that human sexual behavior has no such compunctions without religious interference. Why would that change if religion was removed?

* - I highly recommend chapters 9 (Unholy Biology: Busting the Monogamy Myth) and 11 (Sex Before God) of Sex & God, by Darrel Ray.

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Yeah, homosexuality wasn't really an issue in ancient civilizations. Religion is pretty much what vilified the idea.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 15, 2013 3:16 pm 
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It is important to distinguish between religious guilt and guilt over having harmed another human being. That most human beings would feel guilt over murdering another human being is what prevents us from doing it in the first place, and points to the lack of need for religion to dictate our morality. It's a nice strawman argument, though, and would certainly make me feel better about my religious doctrine if I followed one.

Religious guilt is that which stems from failing to adhere properly to the tenants of the faith. For example, guilt over not believing strongly enough in Jesus Christ as the son of God, guilt over having lustful thoughts, guilt over not instilling the proper fear of God in your children, and so forth. This guilt is followed by prayer, and then the wonderful feeling that God forgives you. Of course, without religion, the guilt never existed in the first place. For example, the Buddhist feels little guilt over not believing strongly that Jesus Christ is the son of God, and therefore has no need to pray for forgiveness; likewise the Baptist feels little guilt over not believing that Mohammad is the last prophet of Allah. There are only two ways to absolve religious guilt. The first is through increased devotion to the institution, and the second is to abandon that religion. The second is far more difficult, as most religious individuals are heavily indoctrinated from childhood.

Compare this to societal guilt, which would be the guilt I might feel for calling Khross a cancer-riddled buffoon who can no longer distinguish reality from his LSD-induced hallucinations. I would feel this guilt not because of religious teachings, but because Khross is my friend and that is a poor way to treat a friend. This guilt can be absolved by making amends to Khross, first by making an apology, that I spoke too hastily and said things I did not truly mean, and second by a show of good faith, perhaps spending some time in an activity Khross enjoys such as a baseball game, and footing the bill since it would be impolite at that point to expect Khross to buy the tickets. Prayer and religion, on the other hand, would not address the reality of the damaged relationship. God's forgiveness is fine and dandy, but that wouldn't be what I am seeking. Now, a minister might point out that I should repair the relationship with Khross, but that's not the result of any religious training, nor is it a manifestation of God's wisdom.

To put it mildly, the only cure offered by religion is for a disease that the religion itself has infected you with.

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Arathain Kelvar wrote:
Aizle wrote:
Talya wrote:
Sam wrote:
It's kinda hard to deal with people who believe an invisible being is in control of everything, and dictates everything in their life (and thus your life). I don't mean to be insulting or down right mean about it, but if you had a grownup who still believed his invisible childhood friend was real, or a grownup who was never told Santa wasn't real.......what is the appropriate way to deal with that without coming off as insulting? At some point, we have to say it's kinda messed up. And I'm not sure there is a nice way to put that.


Yeah, that's the mental reaction I get.


Exactly my sentiments as well.


Really? That's such a pretentious position, it's rather shocking. So you believe something, and someone believes something else. OMG!!! What a weirdo!

They have just as much confidence in their position as you do in yours. Guess what? One of you is wrong, and it doesn't have to be them.

Moreover, it doesn't make sense. Who gives a crap? On the one hand, Jesus will save us, so a nice guy will try to spread the word to save people. On the other hand, Jesus doesn't exist, so a nice guy will... what? Mind his business?


My invisible friend doesn't tell me that homosexuals are evil tools of the betrayer and need to be shunned or fixed or put to death.

My whole problem with religion is the people in it. Don't **** tell me how to live my life, because if I don't do it your way, I'll be damned to some sort of torment because I think that homosexuals should be able to get married.

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