Rorinthas wrote:
Should society promote marriage through tax breaks, preferred status, etc is a separate issue, unrelated to equal protection under the law. Personally I would say yes it produces the best and most conducive environment for child rearing. However I'd be happy with limiting that to the state/local level.
Then, clearly, all childless couples and empty nesters are exploiting tax loopholes that need to be closed.
This is why I think the government should butt out of marriage entirely and not recognize it at all. If the goal is to promote stable, two-parent family units, then we need to recognize child-rearing tax breaks for cohabiting adults filing together.
If we want to promote cohabitation as a blanket rule (because it's economically and ecologically more efficient.. green, if you will), then roommates and communal arrangements need to be extended the tax incentives, as well, and romantic entanglement/sexual orientation needs to be taken out of the equation.
If we want to lubricate the bureaucratic process for things like inheritance, medical visitation/decision-making, etc., then limiting it to romantic partners is likewise discriminatory against singles (and, in addition, automatically granting it to romantic/domestic partners probably troublesome in some circumstances, e.g. domestic abuse). I've never been married, but I'd give all my "married benefits" in regards to visitation and medical power of attorney to my brother in a heartbeat. In fact, I've done so for most of it (though I imagine hospital policies on visitation and whatnot would still not grant him the flexibility they would for a spouse), via an avenue that was trivially expensive and relatively hassle-free, and open to gays in a committed relationship.
Etc.