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The assumption that there is some virtue or value to "normalcy" is rather repugnant to me. There are only
a few things you could say about someone more damning than "they were normal."

I think you'll find most people have this view ;-)


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Collective values are relevant, but only in the sense that we identify whether an individual is "abnormal" or not.


The assumption that there is some virtue or value to "normalcy" is rather repugnant to me. There are only a few things you could say about someone more damning than "they were normal."


Um, Taly, it's sort of a tautology. Society (which we are discussing) will view normalcy (i.e. compliance with societal norms) as a virtue, inevitably.

I could talk about what a particular individual values, but that's just an outlier and irrelevant. The idea that you find "normal" repugnant is silly. You operate within the bounds of normalcy a majority of the time.


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Whether you view it positively or negatively, that is the definition of cowardice.

And no, I don't view it positively. Yes, the cowardly will inevitably put themselves at less risk, to the woe of the species.



I think you are forgetting something in this formula: the values of the person in question.

Cowardice is not about whether fear influences your actions. It is about whether you allow fear to override rational thinking, or to compromise your values.

If you fail to act to save children when you think you should, because you are afraid, then that is cowardice.

If you think about your fear, and in the end, value your own life more than the life of some random child you do not know, you are not being a coward. It is not cowardly to do the smart thing to get the results that you find most favorable. Fear is merely an indicator of danger. Heeding fear to run for your life from a wild animal is not cowardice -- standing there and facing it is stupid. It's only when the animal threatens something you value more than your life, and fear stops you from reacting properly, that you're being a coward.

Most of the time, acting on fear is just being intelligent.


A coward is: a person who lacks courage in facing danger, difficulty, opposition, pain, etc.; a timid or easily intimidated person.

Now, as I said previously:

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Any act or lack of action that is based on fear is, by definition, a cowardly act. If someone fails to protect a child in need out of fear of physical or financial harm, they are a coward by definition. Now, I have granted special consideration to people who just cannot hope to succeed in protecting such a child, as logic may dictate their action rather than fear.


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Arathain Kelvar wrote:

A coward is: a person who lacks courage in facing danger, difficulty, opposition, pain, etc.; a timid or easily intimidated person.

Now, as I said previously:

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Any act or lack of action that is based on fear is, by definition, a cowardly act. If someone fails to protect a child in need out of fear of physical or financial harm, they are a coward by definition. Now, I have granted special consideration to people who just cannot hope to succeed in protecting such a child, as logic may dictate their action rather than fear.



And again, I think you missed the point. Let's approach it from a different angle:

You don't even need to feel fear to "fail to protect a child" because of risk of physical or financial harm. You might not even be feeling fear at all. It may be completely rational. You may simply value your own physical and financial well-being more than you value that of some random kid you do not know. Mentally balancing risk vs. reward is not fear.

Note that the above may not even be selfish. Maybe you value the idea of not orphaning or bankrupting your own children (or widowing your wife) more than you value the life of someone else's child. You wouldn't hesitate to risk physical or financial harm for one of your own.

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Talya wrote:
Arathain Kelvar wrote:

A coward is: a person who lacks courage in facing danger, difficulty, opposition, pain, etc.; a timid or easily intimidated person.

Now, as I said previously:

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Any act or lack of action that is based on fear is, by definition, a cowardly act. If someone fails to protect a child in need out of fear of physical or financial harm, they are a coward by definition. Now, I have granted special consideration to people who just cannot hope to succeed in protecting such a child, as logic may dictate their action rather than fear.



And again, I think you missed the point. Let's approach it from a different angle:

You don't even need to feel fear to "fail to protect a child" because of risk of physical or financial harm. You might not even be feeling fear at all. It may be completely rational. You may simply value your own physical and financial well-being more than you value that of some random kid you do not know. Mentally balancing risk vs. reward is not fear.

Note that the above may not even be selfish. Maybe you value the idea of not orphaning or bankrupting your own children (or widowing your wife) more than you value the life of someone else's child. You wouldn't hesitate to risk physical or financial harm for one of your own.


Fear does not need to be irrational or overly emotional, Taly. A rational viewpoint that protecting someone will potentially cause harm is fear - basing your decision on your fear/concern/whateveryouwanttocallit for your own well being is cowardice.


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Taly,

I do not recall ever feeling an emotional-based fear until I had children. Being completely rational yet concerned for yourself over others is still cowardly.


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Not necessarily.

Odds of success factor into it. There may be a 1 in 1,000,000 chance I could save a child falling out of an airplane by jumping after it (sans parachute) and using my body to cushion their fall. Is it cowardly to fail to take a low-percentage choice? I don't know if I would to it for my own child, given the other people I still have to protect.


Would I step in front of a bullet for my child? Probably. That has a slightly higher odds of success, and isn't necessarily fatal.

Would I do it for someone elses child? Probably not, given that it might mean that I wouldn't be there for my own children.

A risk/benefit analysis does not automatically mean a cowardly choice.


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I do not recall ever feeling an emotional-based fear until I had children. Being completely rational yet concerned for yourself over others is still cowardly.



So your definition of cowardice, then, has nothing to do with fear at all, but is instead about valuing your own life above that of random strangers.


If this is the case, quite frankly, you are a pompous idiot, and a liar/hypocrite as well. **** off.

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Let's see how this conversation started shall we?

Arathain: Save the childrens because they are valuable!

Hopwin: You can't make a blanket statement like that. Here are examples of children who not only weren't valuable but were net detractors.

DE: Hilter and Dahmer are strawman arguments!

Hopwin: Here is a common example that I think everyone can relate to (me)

DE: They are vaulable because society needs them to continue existing!

Hopwin: Existing does not add value

DE: Changes argument *existence of society in and of itself does not constitute value* Calls Hopwin ridiculous

Hopwin: Accuses DE of being annoyed for getting caught in a bald assertion

DE: Changes argument to philosophical, "What is value really?" People are now valuable because "people around them" say they are valuable or because we don't take their lives as punishment for crime. Calls Hopwin internet hipster. Starts arguing about societal penalities for intervening.

Hopwin: Posts picture of moving goalposts

DE: Tells Hopwin he met a "quota" that apparently has been set in prior conversations that Hopwin is unaware of.


This is so incredibly far off the mark that you no longer merit response.. anywhere.

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Arathain, I think you have no idea what cowardice really is; in fact, your definitions disallow bravery and privilege fearlessness. I suggest a healthy dose of Dennis O'Neil and Neal Adams, as you certainly need to learn the lessons Hal Jordan and Ollie Queen have to teach.

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Did I get No True Scottsmanned as a sociopath?

Yes, I believe you did. Congratulations, Hopwin. You're now the Glade's most likely to commit serial rape and cannibalism.

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Did I get No True Scottsmanned as a sociopath?

Yes, I believe you did. Congratulations, Hopwin. You're now the Glade's most likely to commit serial rape and cannibalism.



Note to self: Stop using "Eat me" when insulting Hopwin.

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Diamondeye wrote:
This is so incredibly far off the mark that you no longer merit response.. anywhere.

That's just hurtful. Seriously.

Corolinth wrote:
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Did I get No True Scottsmanned as a sociopath?

Yes, I believe you did. Congratulations, Hopwin. You're now the Glade's most likely to commit serial rape and cannibalism.

Achievement unlocked! Do I get a badge for it?

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Right here.

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If you like, you can have Gay Nazis for Christ instead.

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Right here.

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If you like, you can have Gay Nazis for Christ instead.

Do I really have to choose? Cause that seems unfair.

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Right here.

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If you like, you can have Gay Nazis for Christ instead.


Mosaic law indicates that God thought precisely that. (what it says in the original image)

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Right here.

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Mosaic law indicates that God thought precisely that. (what it says in the original image)



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Not necessarily.

Odds of success factor into it. There may be a 1 in 1,000,000 chance I could save a child falling out of an airplane by jumping after it (sans parachute) and using my body to cushion their fall. Is it cowardly to fail to take a low-percentage choice? I don't know if I would to it for my own child, given the other people I still have to protect.


Would I step in front of a bullet for my child? Probably. That has a slightly higher odds of success, and isn't necessarily fatal.

Would I do it for someone elses child? Probably not, given that it might mean that I wouldn't be there for my own children.

A risk/benefit analysis does not automatically mean a cowardly choice.


I made allowances for this in pretty much every response, as you would see had you read the thread.


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Talya wrote:
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Taly,

I do not recall ever feeling an emotional-based fear until I had children. Being completely rational yet concerned for yourself over others is still cowardly.



So your definition of cowardice, then, has nothing to do with fear at all, but is instead about valuing your own life above that of random strangers.



No, not at all - I think I posted the definition. This is a very odd statement to make.

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If this is the case, quite frankly, you are a pompous idiot, and a liar/hypocrite as well. **** off.


Interesting reaction. Perhaps I touched a nerve. Either way, to each their own.


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Arathain, I think you have no idea what cowardice really is; in fact, your definitions disallow bravery and privilege fearlessness. I suggest a healthy dose of Dennis O'Neil and Neal Adams, as you certainly need to learn the lessons Hal Jordan and Ollie Queen have to teach.


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As I've said numerous times, if someone is afraid for their own well being I cannot second-guess them (I might, but would try not to). It's silly to suggest people need commit suicide.

Now, I have also said that if someone is not worried about their safety but instead concerned about their pocketbook/being punished/etc. over the safety of a child they are a cowardly piece of ****.

Now, I understand this makes people uncomfortable, makes people perhaps feel bad about themselves and in turn get defensive, but it's a pretty simple concept.

Attempting to confuse it with a variety of off-the-wall hypotheticals, or nitpicking definitions isn't going to change it. Cowardice doesn't get any more basic than refusing to help a child in trouble when you have the ability to do so.

Rationalize it however you like - you're the ones that will have to live with it.


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I could just as easily say you are the one who will have to live with it if you have your livelyhood stripped away and most of your possessions, assets, and cash because you were sued. How would you explain yourself to your family then?

There really isn't a clear answer. This isn't like the Jerry Sandusky case where it was a very clear matter of an adult attacking a child. Society has created this "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situation where children can attack other children with impunity because we're so afraid of any child getting hurt, and we somehow think teenagers are just kids that can't do real damage. Individuals have to take that into account in deciding their own course of action. There is not necessarily a clear correct course of action. It might be cowardly not to intervene, but then again it might be simple common sense.

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