Midgen wrote:
The problem is, there are huge drug companies with nearly unlimited budgets advocating to the medical industry and its consumers on behalf of their products and the 'benefits'.
The flip side of that coin is that there are really very few people or organizations (and nearly zero money) advocating against those philosophies (except apparently the author in the OP).
As a child I suffered from many of the 'anomalies' that would today be diagnosed as various things (ADHD, Depression, maybe even Autism....), but I managed to turn into a fairly successful adult human being without the use of any medications.
Did I struggle? yes... Did my parents struggle? yes... Did we all fare well in the end? I suppose...
Even today, when I talk to my doctor, if I even so much as mention anything related to my mood, or energy levels, or focus and concetration, his immediate response is to get is prescription tablet out.
It seems to me that 'there is a pill for that' is the default answer to everything any more, and almost no one seems interested in learning to manage their problems in other ways.
I'm not taking sides in this discussion. I have no idea what is going on in your lives, and I'm not inclined to tell anyone how to raise their child.
My own personal observations lead me to the conclusion that in general, there is too much medicating going on in the world today, and not enough teaching of life skills.
Presently, I don't see drug companies being nearly as responsible for ADHD overdiagnosis as schools anxious to turn childhood energy into easily-managed orderliness, and especially to make little boys adhere to the educational environment that has been tailored to little girls.
Also, I think that the "You can manage it yourself" crowd can be just as bad as the "there's a pill for that" crowd. We have examples like the sort of people that are anti-vaccination (not a pill, but still..) but I'll give a more personal example. I started getting heavy compared to my peers around 6th grade. I stayed heavy and got relatively heavier, even in periods of
highly intense physical activity on a daily basis, and despite not eating significantly more or a particularly unhealthy diet - or rather, in periods where I ate less healthy as a general rule, I gained weight just as steadily as in periods where I was hitting the salad bar.
By highly intense physical activity, I mean high school (playing street hockey or pickup football almost every single day after school, plus hockey practice twice or more a week and at least 2 games a week for all but the first and last month of the school year), during college, despite daily PT for ROTC, plus extra PT for Corps of Cadets activities several times a week, plus ROTC events that weren't PT but were physically demanding PLUS Ranger Challenge the first 2 months of the year which was... well, **** insane. You don't even want to know what life was like in September and October those years.
The same applied on active duty; PT every day and being on your feet all the time, not to mention field exercises and the orange eggs.. well, never mind that. Despite this I just got fatter and fatter, barring two weeks where I literally couldn't eat anything but small amounts of cottage cheese due to having my uvula removed (for no good reason as it turned out)
The attitude of the Army, and most people I knew wasn't "there's a pill for that" it was "get serious about losing weight" - to a degree, understandable because for a lot of people they really are fat just because they don't give a ****.
It wasn't till I was off active duty for 2 years and happened to change doctors that I learned that not only was there a pill for that, it was one that replaced a hormone my body was supposed to be making but didn't, and left alone long enough not only would it make me even fatter, but it would lead to a host of other problems.
That said, it's also not a miracle pill. If I don't exercise and just eat whatever, I'll still get fat, but now exercise and diet actually do help me lose weight.