NephyrS wrote:
This is not the only forum with strongly differing community viewpoints I've seen that comic posted on.
On all the others, it led to great discussions about how Christians can be perceived, how to alter perceptions, and how different other subsets of the population in general view Christians.
I don't see that as a particularly good discussion, seeing as it (unsurprisngly) treats this perception as bad just because it's about Christians, and it being their responsibility to change the perceptions of other people - people who are not inclined to change that perception regardless. It's not very hard to figure out that no matter what Christians do, there's some people that will always find a reason why it's unacceptable, and if there isn't one, they'll do something like.. create a comic that distorts the actual Christian perspective, and then put it forward claiming it's just a way to start a discussion.
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The main difference? None of the Christians on the forum immediately responded defensively. They were able to see that there was some truth to the perception, and some truth to the reaction, and respond accordingly.
Well, since you seem to have missed it, maybe that's because on those boards you don't get a bunch of other people making comments to the effect of "just goes to show there's nothing more annoying than a well-intentioned person of faith".
Furthermore, complaining that people respond "defensively" is a bullshit tactic used by high school girls to get away with passive-aggressive targeting of people they don't like by making generalizations aimed at groups that are acceptable targets. Usually, you see it with comments about "males" and "Sexism" and if the males object it's "why are you getting so defensive?" and it's very effective with high school kids because they don't know how to respond to what amounts to an ad hom.
Making a claim that someone is "getting defensive" is a distraction technique aimed at criticizing them, rather than addressing any counterpoint they might have to make - exactly what you're doing here. There WAS a discussion to be had, and it actually started BEING had when Shuyung brought up the fact that people with any type of belief can be annoyingly passionate about it. It had nothing to do with anyone "getting defensive" - which is a cute way of saying "the Christians are supposed to just sit there and let everyone else take their potshots and not respond".
Don't talk about people "getting defensive". It's an utterly illegitimate line of discussion.
Furthermore, there wasn't any problem here with people seeing "some truth to the perception" either; there was a problem with the non-Christians seeing that there was truth in that perception with them, as well, and also with beliefs that are strongly held but not religious in nature.
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IMO, the problem isn't with what RD has posted, it's with how a select few of you consistently respond.
Yeah, the "select few" being the Christians that won't just roll over and say "oh yes, that's just so awful of us, however can we stop people from having that perception of Christians, even though they obviously WANT to have it and cannot under any circumstances tolerate anything remotely positive about religion, nor any criticism of nonreligious people's behavior."
The "select few" that are the problem are those that can't let a religious issue pass without getting their digs in. RD knows they exist and he knows perfectly well what they do.
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Also, as to why there isn't discussion? There was a derail with a troll post very shortly into the thread. Several troll posts, actually. Especially so since one of the primary definitions of trolling is to distract from the topic of discussion with something likely to elicit emotional response.
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Obsesses much?
Is then a quintessential troll post. It offers nothing related to the topic at hand, and serves to derail (effectively, it seems) the rest of the post with an inflammatory discussion.
Unfortunately, there's nothing to discuss in the first place. Ok, this is the percentage of non-Christian, non-affiliated people. What's the point of discussion?
Oh that's right, there isn't one other than "hey guys, religion!" What are we supposed to talk about? That's not a troll post so much as feeding a troll.
It's also interesting that Arathain's comment gets criticized, but obvious trolling like "well, large numbers of people around this country didn't even know Muslims existed before 9/11" goes unnoticed.