Talya wrote:
DE -- are you actually saying you agree with anything that Phyllis Schlafly has to say on the matter? Seriously???
No. I'm saying that Schlafely is being misinterpreted as saying women should not be paid equally for equal work, when that is A) not the issue on the table and B) is not what she's saying. What she's saying is that women should not seek to earn as much as men in the first place, presumably by not seeking the sorts of employment that pay that much.
While rather silly on her part, the fact is that women already do this to some degree - many hard, but high-paying jobs such as oil rig workers are jobs women habitually avoid. Schlafely is old, out of date, largely irrelevant, and has misguided priorities - but MSNBC is still misrepresenting her.
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This twelve year old is far wiser that that stupid old bint. You're criticizing a 12 year old who wrote a respectful and extremely well thought out letter as a response to a self-hating mysoginist of a woman who thinks women are somehow less valuable than men, -- that our only value is to on the arm of a man, in the kitchen, or pumping out babies for them.
This 12 year old is not wiser than Schlafely, her letter is not well thought out, nor is it respectful (the first paragraph dispels any notion of that) and this idea that Schlafely is either self-hating or misogenist is total nonsense - that's exactly the sort of victim-politics crap that liberals espouse almost all the time.
Aside from the fact that this letter is either a fake or representative of a 12 year old of absolutely colossal arrogance. (I'm leaning towards the former, but not by much) Young girls do not try to attract boys because they are "told" to; they do it because they're adolescent heterosexuals. Young girls are lead down this ridiculous path that they are only interested in boys, dating, and being attractive because of nefarious social influences, and they believe it because they are impressionable kids, but the fact is that sex drive is sex drive, and young girls should not be ashamed of wanting male attention, any more than boys should of wanting it from girls. It's just another way of controlling people's sexuality by telling them they wouldn't want to act on it if someone weren't "controlling" them or some ****.
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Seriously, I have little use for traditional feminism at all, but let's not go in the opposite direction.
My only criticism for this 12 year old girl's open letter, is it's wasted respect. Schlafly doesn't deserve anything other than a nice "**** you, *****."
Well, we aren't. Don't take MSNBC's word for Schlafely's position. She's among the most hated figures in liberal ideology despite the fact that her day is past. She's really not even relevant anymore, and the only real reason they're reporting on her comments is to denigrate her personally due to leftover liberal animosity from losing the ERA battle.
Also, watch that video. The woman who made it, Karen Straghan (SP?) is a mens rights activist who is bisexual, a divorced single mother, and "slightly genderqueer" (according to her). She also happens to be Canadian, and is one of the very rare atheists that demonstrates some intellectual honesty in that regard (although relevant to the video I linked).
She discusses in there the almost total lack of advantage and significant disadvantage men suffer from marriage and why more and more men reject it - and more importantly, that while people react indignantly at the idea that women should make an effort to attract men, when men say "ok fine" and reject marriage and all the attendent avenues to have their resources confiscated - that we still get complaints that there is something wrong with men.