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PostPosted: Tue Sep 23, 2014 9:31 pm 
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I just went over this. Excuse the **** out of me for not perfectly remembering a thread from 2 and half years ago.


If you're going to bring it up after two years, you should do your homework.

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The point was, though, that you were just too concerned with making sure your argument persisted in the face of fact that you seriously made the case that a 12 year old with a small knife is more dangerous than a large dog of a breed suitable for attacking people.


Nope. Learn to read. Also, learn to move on after two years, Jesus Christ. What's it say that I have no idea what you posted two years ago in any thread? Kinda creepy, man.

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No amount of scoffing, flipping the bird, and laughing is going to change the fact that you're making an idiot of yourself - again. This is three times now; the dog thing, this thread, and the "nothing wrong with a good, honest tussle!" thread. You're a riot. /bird, LMFAO, what are you a frat boy? Or are you just wishing you could take a swing at me?


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When you're done poisoning the well with incorrect references and incorrect understandings of mocking responses of 2-year old stupid questions, perhaps you can stop bringing in your personal butt-hurt feelings about me into the thread, and actually stick to discussions of the topic.


Oh, I understood your response quite well. The only butt hurt going on here is you; Mr. "STFU TOOL LMFAO /BIRD WHAAAAAAAAA!!!!" You're giving TR terrible advice, which is why I'm responding to it. My reference was accurate; the thread existed and you were being an idiot there too because, just like here, you made a snap judgment and then defend it at all costs.

If you want to complain about "sticking to the topic" then you can quit with the /bird and STFU and so forth, but it's hilarious to watch you quiver with rage. The reason for referencing the thread was your history of coming up with your own ideas of how things work and then defe3nding them because they just seem right to you - oh, and you're in no position to complain about referencing old threads - you were the one that had a quote of Monty's from one of the old Glades in your sig just to provoke him.


Yeah, seriously creepy. You're getting a bit too worked up here. What quote did I have of Monty's? I don't even remember. Actually, nevermind. It doesn't matter.

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Especially since, as we can see above, your assumptions as to how I would response were completely wrong.


Not really. They were pretty much exactly right - you have absolutely no idea how to handle confrontations, or what's realistic, and yet you insist on coming in and lecturing people when the only business you have on these matters is shutting the **** up. Not because I'm right and you're wrong but because everyone other than you is. Lenas is giving vastly better advice than you are, so is Michael in some respects. You're making up bullshit about what a jury would do - how much experience do you have with juries? Did you even bother to look up the law?

No, I'm sure you didn't. You just went to the intuitive "This is what's cool to do"; what seems like it should be right in your little world where people fight fair and threats always nicely present themselves in advance, and no one would ever try to trick someone into pulling their wallet out before trying to rob them.

Here's a clue - you don't make the rules of civilized behavior in public. The law does. You may agree with it, you may not, but whether it's right or wrong, no one is going to put it in your hands to determine. Your job if you ever do get on a jury is to decide if the law was broken, not to enforce your idea of what the law should be.

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The simple fact is that no one should ever listen to you about how to handle a confrontation, under any circumstances. Your advice is a hazard to anyone hearing it.


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You can /bird all you want. You're the one going through life with this attitude. By all means, keep getting into confrontations and then rely on your idea of how things work when it eventually bites you in the ***. Maybe you'll be lucky and it never will, but if it does I suppose you can sit there and suck your thumb and comfort yourself thinking how unfair it all is that the rules aren't made by what Arathain thinks is cool.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 23, 2014 9:39 pm 
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Diamondeye wrote:
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Without an overt threat of any kind - verbal or otherwise - and with him leaving afterward - I don't see how he could be convicted. As described, opening and closing the knife - I see reasonable doubt there. It wasn't waved in his face or pointed at him, or anything. IMO, it's not enough for a conviction.


Which according to the law is "brandishing". That is a threat. You're using what seems like a difference in your mind, and a technical distinction of "overt threat" the law doesn't require. It's equally easy to stab someone with a knife that's already in your hand regardless of how you're waving it around. Drawing a weapon in public indicates willingness to use it - drawing it when no one else is threatening you - and TR was not threatening the knife guy - indicates willingness to use it on someone who isn't threatening you.

All things you'd understand if you bothered to find out what the law actually is before commenting on how you'd vote on a jury. A jury trial means a trial according to the law, not whatever any jackass that lands on the jury thinks the law should be.


As much as I appreciate being called a jackass for trying to talk about the subject at hand, I don't agree.

I think demonstrated intent is going to go a long way with any jury in establishing reasonable doubt for a crime. Opening a knife in public with no demonstrated intent to use it isn't going to get a conviction IMO. It's obviously not a particularly intelligent thing to do; I just don't see it as being a convictable offense.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 23, 2014 10:12 pm 
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I just went over this. Excuse the **** out of me for not perfectly remembering a thread from 2 and half years ago.


If you're going to bring it up after two years, you should do your homework.


You should remember your own positions. What I said was similar enough that it should have rang a bell. You also should, when someone admits they made a mistake, not pretend that they didn't say so.

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Nope. Learn to read. Also, learn to move on after two years, Jesus Christ. What's it say that I have no idea what you posted two years ago in any thread? Kinda creepy, man.


Yes. I did read, I just don't believe you. You're not credible. As for your last sentence, I remembered what you said only because it was so spectacularly outrageous. Had you not taken such an incredibly silly position (oh no, wait! it was a joke! really!) I would have forgotten it entirely.

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No amount of scoffing, flipping the bird, and laughing is going to change the fact that you're making an idiot of yourself - again. This is three times now; the dog thing, this thread, and the "nothing wrong with a good, honest tussle!" thread. You're a riot. /bird, LMFAO, what are you a frat boy? Or are you just wishing you could take a swing at me?


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Maybe if you hadn't made your own penchant for confrontation known....

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Yeah, seriously creepy. You're getting a bit too worked up here. What quote did I have of Monty's? I don't even remember. Actually, nevermind. It doesn't matter.


I don't remember what quote, only that one of the admins made you take it down. Also, you can stop projecting. I'm not worked up. I am, however, amused (as usual) by your behavior. You're the one going "STFU!" and /bird.. and I'm the one getting worked up?

Here's a clue - there is nothing you can do to work me up. I'm posting lest someone read your nonsense and think you know what you're talking about. You can yell and scream here all day; it won't change anything and no one is going to let you anywhere near a position to actually make things work the way you think they ought to work.

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I think somebody needs a hug.


Go see your wife. She'll help you out with that.
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As much as I appreciate being called a jackass for trying to talk about the subject at hand, I don't agree.


I don't really care if you agree. You're wrong. You have no basis other than personal intuition for what you are saying.

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I think demonstrated intent is going to go a long way with any jury in establishing reasonable doubt for a crime. Opening a knife in public with no demonstrated intent to use it isn't going to get a conviction IMO. It's obviously not a particularly intelligent thing to do; I just don't see it as being a convictable offense.


Unfortunately for you, it does demonstrate intent pretty clearly, and it isn't just about demonstrated intent, but what a reasonable person would perceive as the intent. If a person coming up to you with a deployed knife isn't a threat in your mind just because he theoretically could just want to sell it, you're unbelievably foolhardy.

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 24, 2014 8:36 am 
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Diamondeye wrote:
Yes. I did read, I just don't believe you. You're not credible. As for your last sentence, I remembered what you said only because it was so spectacularly outrageous. Had you not taken such an incredibly silly position (oh no, wait! it was a joke! really!) I would have forgotten it entirely.


No, what I said was, both would go down handily. The joke was just that maybe the kid could bob and weave and require an extra shot. Maybe he could get closer, if lucky. The point being neither will actually make it to the armed criminal. It hardly matters, after two years, though. I'm hardly interested. Besides, as much as you seem to pay close attention to my posts, you should know that I'm rarely serious about anything.

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Yeah, seriously creepy. You're getting a bit too worked up here. What quote did I have of Monty's? I don't even remember. Actually, nevermind. It doesn't matter.


I don't remember what quote, only that one of the admins made you take it down. Also, you can stop projecting. I'm not worked up. I am, however, amused (as usual) by your behavior. You're the one going "STFU!" and /bird.. and I'm the one getting worked up?

Here's a clue - there is nothing you can do to work me up. I'm posting lest someone read your nonsense and think you know what you're talking about. You can yell and scream here all day; it won't change anything and no one is going to let you anywhere near a position to actually make things work the way you think they ought to work.


See, I remember the incident, but remember it being related to someone else. However, based on what I'm seeing here, it may have been the case. You certainly seem inclined to keep track of what I'm up to. As for STFU and /bird, I'm simply dismissing your nonsense and desire to bring baggage into the thread with an appropriate response. Much like an /eyeroll or a :thumbs:

To be serious for a moment, you seem way too invested in what I post. Remembering posts from the past, bringing baggage into unrelated threads, getting upset enough to call me names because I disagreed with you, etc. It's creepy as hell, and I'm not going to feed it. I'm good. I'll respond as long as you can keep it on topic and polite, but I'm going to at least try to be disciplined enough to ignore the attacks, posts about me, and other general creepiness, and not get sucked in.

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I don't really care if you agree. You're wrong. You have no basis other than personal intuition for what you are saying.


Then why respond? I disagree. So what?

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I think demonstrated intent is going to go a long way with any jury in establishing reasonable doubt for a crime. Opening a knife in public with no demonstrated intent to use it isn't going to get a conviction IMO. It's obviously not a particularly intelligent thing to do; I just don't see it as being a convictable offense.


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Unfortunately for you, it does demonstrate intent pretty clearly, and it isn't just about demonstrated intent, but what a reasonable person would perceive as the intent. If a person coming up to you with a deployed knife isn't a threat in your mind just because he theoretically could just want to sell it, you're unbelievably foolhardy.


No, I don't agree.


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Just so we're clear: In the >2 years I've worked in downtown Cinci, I've had exactly zero other people offer to sell me a personal item in exchange for cash. I've had a number of beggers and panhandlers ask to borrow my phone, spare a dollar, etc, but not once has anyone offered to sell me something.

The ONE time someone offers to 'sell' me something, its a weapon, and its not just sitting there, but being actively manipulated.

Do you honestly believe that the show of a knife was something other than an attempt to coerce cash from me? He may have never intended to hurt people, but the knife was being used as a tool of influence.


If he had a gun and was waving it my direction and offering to 'sell it to me' with his hand on the trigger (As opposed to say, holding the barrel and offering me the grip) it would be the same. Even if it had been a fake gun or fake knife, its still being used to create fear in the other person. The presence of a loaded weapon (or in this case, a blade opened) changes the social dynamic from a sales or begging situation to one where there is a (perceived) power disparity between two individuals and the one with the power is attempting to leverage cash.

That's robbery.


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 24, 2014 11:58 am 
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Arathain Kelvar wrote:
To be serious for a moment, you seem way too invested in what I post. Remembering posts from the past, bringing baggage into unrelated threads, getting upset enough to call me names because I disagreed with you, etc. It's creepy as hell, and I'm not going to feed it. I'm good. I'll respond as long as you can keep it on topic and polite, but I'm going to at least try to be disciplined enough to ignore the attacks, posts about me, and other general creepiness, and not get sucked in...


I wish you well, Ara; that's been my position for months now, and it rarely goes beyond one response before I stop responding to the name-calling, etc.

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Just so we're clear: In the >2 years I've worked in downtown Cinci, I've had exactly zero other people offer to sell me a personal item in exchange for cash. I've had a number of beggers and panhandlers ask to borrow my phone, spare a dollar, etc, but not once has anyone offered to sell me something.

The ONE time someone offers to 'sell' me something, its a weapon, and its not just sitting there, but being actively manipulated.

Do you honestly believe that the show of a knife was something other than an attempt to coerce cash from me? He may have never intended to hurt people, but the knife was being used as a tool of influence.


Maybe? Like I said before, you have to be there to get an overall impression of the situation. That said, I'm a firm believer in "never ascribe to malice, that which can be explained by stupidity", which is a variation of a widely known saying that I think is worth considering here. I've met some dumb, naive people. "Manipulating" the knife around strangers is clearly a stupid thing to do if you're not intending harm. But there's a lot of dumb people out there.

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If he had a gun and was waving it my direction and offering to 'sell it to me' with his hand on the trigger (As opposed to say, holding the barrel and offering me the grip) it would be the same.


Again, I wasn't there, but your gun scenario above differs greatly from my understanding of your situation from your description. When I hear "manipulating" the knife, "flicking the knife open and closed", and "didn't move like someone expecting a fight", I get a distinctly different impression than "waving a gun in my direction" and "hand on the trigger". They seem substantially different in my interpretation of your description.

If they are, indeed, the same, I'm just not seeing it in your description of the event.


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If someone asked you for cash and just made a point of showing you their holstered gun, you would still feel coerced.

Openly carrying a weapon is a statement. It implies a willingness to use the weapon, presumably in self defense. It's no freaking different than a coral snakes bright colors. A warning that I'll mess you up if you **** with me.

It's literally a threat display. When that same threat display is used to obtain that which is not yours it becomes criminal.


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From a conviction standpoint, it's not enough. You could easily argue that if you want to sell a knife, you have to show it to the potential buyer. It's enough reasonable doubt.


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Literally no one on this board agrees with you on this.


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From a conviction standpoint, it's not enough. You could easily argue that if you want to sell a knife, you have to show it to the potential buyer. It's enough reasonable doubt.

I'm sure criminals are banking on exactly this level of obtuse thinking should something come to trial.


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That's the thing, I think Ara is seeing it as I did as well, from your initial description. He even made it clear in his post of 11:04; some moron was opening and closing a knife not realizing the effect he could have on others.

You stated that you didn't think he intended to do you harm. Unless you were going to lie about it afterward, that alone would get you in deep if you assaulted him.

Now, I didn't read the rest of the back-and-forth, but that's my interpretation of page one, and these last few posts.

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If TR had preemptively struck this man due to perceived threat, he never would have made the statement and it couldn't have gotten him "in deep." If he had attacked the man, he certainly wouldn't have come here to post and say that he wasn't threatened.


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Sure, he wouldn't be telling us the story the same way (if at all), but when he was asked by the police/lawyers/judge, whatever the case may be, if he felt that the guy was going to do him harm, he'd either have to lie, or he'd be "in deep", as I said. I guess what I'm trying to get at is that it's my feeling that it's hard to convince a jury that you attacked someone because of a "perceived threat" when you didn't think he was actually a threat.
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Maybe I'm reading this all wrong, but that's the feeling I have.

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Well it's a moot point because TR didn't actually attack anyone. We've just been arguing stupid hypothetical **** since the thread started.


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Word. Obviously, TR made the right call.


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