Stathol wrote:
Diamondeye wrote:
That would involve me being angry about something.
I'd have to be stupid to believe that, and you said it yourself: I'm not stupid. You can call it "sheer frustration" if you'd like, but it's all the same. The point isn't so much that you're angry, but that you're ascribing your anger to things that don't make any sense.
The problem with that being that there's nothing for me to be angry about. Frustration is not a synonym for anger. Yes, this board can be somewhat frustrating sometimes, but you have a lot to learn if you think that means there's "anger". "Anger" is one of those convenient excuses these days for "I don't want to have to consider your position, therefore I'll attribute it to some negative emotion".
But let's suppose that someone is angry about some issue or other. So what? Why is that bad? People are never suppsoed to have negative emotions? Or are they only ok when they "make sense" to you? Has it occurred to you that maybe you just lack the life experience yet for it to make sense?
No, probably not. You ARE very intelligent - but like a lot of intelligent people, you think that you've got a lot more figured out than you really do. I'm a pretty smart guy myself, but I won't pretend to have figured out that equation, or what you or Coro is talking about in General, even though at one time I might
just barely have understood what you guys are talking about - and that's pretty much the situation you're in here but I suspect that admitting it will prove very difficult.
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I didn't ignore "is" versus "ought". Only the "ought" was irrelevant. You think that public debate on this issue ought not matter. So then why does Arathain being an "internet tough guy" about it bother you? Why would you care about an offense against something that you don't care about?
No, I don't think that public debate ought not to matter - I asked Arathain, specifically, why the matter of what interrogation technique is used
ought to be a matter of public debate. No answer was forthcoming other than the same vague threats that we've been hearing for the last 10 years.
Furthermore, where do you get the idea that Arathain's behavior
bothers me? Why do you think I'm
offended by it?
Here's a hint - I'm not. I'm amused by it. I find the back-peddling afterwards to be more amusing still. I find it tremendously amusing that someone who IS intelligent and educated, and obviously considers himself to be informed and to give matters due consideration... thinks the best manner to address an issue that IS a matter of public debate - regardless whether it should be - is to talk about how people that hold a certain viewpoint ought to be shot in the face.
What's even more amusing is that you're apparently more concerned with running down this inconsistency that you think you've identified than anything else. What is it about me that bothers you so much, Stathol? If you think I'm such a colossal *******, why is it that you don't engage on the topic unless you think there's some way you can lecture me - pretty much invariably mistakenly, by the way. Is this just a search for an excuse to ban me?
Diamondeye wrote:
There are a couple reasons, but the only really important one is because I recognize it for the hyperbole that it is. Why would I be bothered by it? More to the point, why would you? It's not because you didn't understand it was hyperbole. Nor is it because you value his opinion. You've already dismissed that as unintelligent nonsense. If that's what you honestly believed about them, there'd be no reason to concern yourself one way or the other with their opinions any more than you would the ramblings of that crazy homeless dude at the offramp. And yet you do.
Gee.. why would I ever dismiss "people need to be shot in the face!" as unintelligent?
More importantly.. if you can recognize Arathain as engaging in hyperbole, why would you then think that I was
not engaging in hyperbole to challenge him to "start shooting"? Do you
actually think I thought he was going to go on a shooting spree? Do you actually think I was seriously challenging him to shoot anyone?
No, that's probably not it. Probably it was more convenient to think that. Hey
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I'm not trying to "attack inconsistency", but you are being inconsistent. The point isn't that inconsistent = bad, but that inconsistent = normal psychological response. It's displaced anger. You're shouting at your kids because you took a pay cut at work. And displaced anger is almost always an ego-defense. No, that doesn't mean you're egotistical. Everyone has ego; everyone defends it. But the catch with this kind of defense is that it only works when you don't think it's working. Our minds work very hard to keep us from being aware of it. And that's where projection comes in to save the day. Yeesh, it smells like anger in here. Where's that coming from? Can't be me. Must be coming from someone else.
Funny.. I wonder what effect it is that makes hyperbole identifiable from one person, but not from another?
Claiming someone else is projecting, and angry, and talking about their ego are pretty easy things to say, Stathol. Very easy indeed.
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Which is why the last thing you can do is admit to being angry. Or at least, that's part of the reason. Maybe you can admit it to yourself, but you can't admit it here. Not because of pride or stubbornness, but because it would raise another threat to ego.
At any rate, here's the $64k introspection: what is it about this topic that threatens you?
Well, you're certainly very good at ad hom, and at begging the question. Calling someone "angry" is very much like calling them "defensive" - if they deny it the point stands, if they admit it, it's a character fault, and if they ignore it it's an admission by default.
I think the real question, Stathol, is why it's so hard for you to explore the idea that maybe I don't need to be angry at all? You seem to have missed something important in all this -
why would public opinion not matter?Here's a more important question - We live in a free society. Public opinion generally
should matter - but it doesn't, even when things become a matter of public debate. Why is that?
Have you thought about that? Has it occurred to you that maybe a part of the reason is impotent raging about shooting people in the face, and similar commentary? did it ever occur to you that I might be trying to make a point about that?
Why would a person in a position of real responsibility ever consider the opinion of someone like Arathain? Compare it to Khross - both of them undoubtedly oppose torture but Khross is in touch with reality. The topic deserves intellectual discussion in the light of sober reality, not a contest to see who can be the most outraged about it. Khross did that, most other people didn't - and in case you had missed it this evaluation is not because of a universally high opinion of Khross's thoughts on my part. However, he deserves credit here. Angry men do not stop to give credit where credit is due, Stathol. There's something to be learned here - don't fall in love with your own hypothesis - but it does not appear you gave any other possibility even a moment's thought.
Why not? You are a scientifically minded person. You should know better. You should also think pretty seriously about why our system is the way it is, and why someone would point out how foolish empty rage about shooting people in the face really is. No, our government doesn't listen very much - because they can't. There's too low a signal-to-noise ratio, and for the most part the people here are too smart to have any excuse for constantly generating more noise. If that sounds angry to you, then you have a very great deal to learn.
Edit: Actually, you know what? **** it.
I'll tell you exactly what makes me angry around here, since otherwise you're just going to regard this as a lot of posturing, and it may not be very obvious to you.
It is not anything in this thread, or by far the vast majority of other threads, but it HAS happened.
It's when people here, often with no children of their own, call into question how I raise my kids. I can think of at least twice that this has happened, and yes, that really does piss me off. I do not like it all. I take good care of my wife and kids, I do my best to raise my kids, and judging by my oldest, I've so far been successful. That oldest, by the way, I adopted when she was 12, and I didn't even meet till she was 9. Becoming her dad - not her stepdad, or just her "father" but her
dad is the best thing I've done and probably ever will do in my life. So frankly, anyone that thinks I'm doing it wrong because I'm violating some abstract principle in their head can **** right off - and that has definitely been implied.
If you don't beleive this, I suggest you look back at what Talya had to say about her kids earlier in this thread. If you think that it's some kind of character flaw that it pisses me off when people - yes, even internet forum people - start implying there's something wrong with how my family works, then
you can **** right off too. In fact, just writing about it is starting to piss me off right now.
So there you have it. That's what pisses me off. It is not anything in this thread, any other thread active right now, or even anything terribly recent. So you can knock it off with the bullshit about how I'm supposedly angry right the **** now and go back to the topic of torture and interrogations, because if you actually have the gall to suggest I'm being anything other than sincere about this then I really WILL be angry about something in this thread. Do you get this?