RangerDave wrote:
Corolinth wrote:
The legal precedent in the United States is that you are very much responsible for your actions while intoxicated.
That's true for criminal liability, but not really for contract validity, which is a much closer parallel to the mutual consent standard for sex. If a person can show that they were sufficiently intoxicated to lack the requisite mental capacity at the time they entered into a contract and, in the case of voluntary intoxication, the other party knew it and took advantage of it, that contract can be voided. In short, if some guy at a party is clearly trashed, and you take the "opportunity" to convince him to sell you his car, the courts may void that contract. If he's also protesting at the time that he doesn't want to sign but you keep pressuring him, physically sit him in a chair, and repeatedly put the pen in his hand and guide it to the document until he finally gives in and reluctantly signs while drifting in and out of coherence...yeah, good luck convincing anyone that's a valid contract reflecting true mutual agreement.
Which itself is a straw man of the typical campus scenario. Generally, both parties are intoxicated and there's
not a clear-cut scenario of one pressuring the other.
Sometimes there is, and feminists would have us believe that's the norm - but it isn't.
What actually happens is that, because males are expected to initiate romantic and sexual activity most of the time, the male does so, the female responds favorably to the initial overture (which generally does not consist of "Hi there, my name is Chad, are you interested in sex tonight?"), everyone else is partying and not chaperoning these 2
adults... and then we have a rape allegation by her and him claiming it was consensual, and not a lot in the way of actual evidence one way or the other.
If you're going with the car analogy, it's as if two people get drunk at a party, start bantering about one selling the other a car, and the next day one has a car and the other has a wad of money and neither is entirely sure how the transaction happened - nor is there any document (i.e. physical evidence) because they did it as a drunken lark at a party.
With sex, though, feminists want to turn the male initiation and attempts to obtain consent into "pressure". That's fine
when there is evidence of actual pressure, but normal social mores do not mean that any time a male start putting the moves on a female that pressure was involved just because she had something to drink - nor does pressure necessarily mean she couldn't or didn't consent. The degree and nature of pressure matter a lot - as does the question of whether she would have done it anyhow.
We are talking about people going to prison, not just returning a car and some money. We should not be sending people to prison based on ideas of civil law equity.