Screeling wrote:
Rental companies here charge 10% or so. I could use 401k money to buy down principal and refinance, but that would likely only get me to a break-even point on monthly rental price vs. monthly mortgage cost. I can probably get my payment down to about $1000 to $1100, which is about what it would likely rent for.
Housing isn't really appreciating too rapidly here. A lot of people keep telling me to look at the house as an investment. All I see is a big box that costs me more in interest than I'll ever sell it for. I hate the idea of losing the last 7 years in payments and money from my 401k just to get free and clear. But at this point, it's seeming like my best option, especially if I end up being multiple states away.
Using your 401K money to buy down principle and refinance brings another layer of complexity, essentially you would be losing growth on that lump sum, which by the sound of things isn't likely to produce a positive gain given the sluggish housing growth.
Without knowing all the details, and assuming quite a few things... This is what I would explore if I was in your situation.
You stated how much you owe is close to how much the house would sell for. In the time left before you move, clean up the house as best as you could to get the best price. e.g. repainting, fixing obvious cracks, etc. Explore apartments in the new city you're moving to. Apartments are generally cheaper, have higher growth and easier to maintain. Use your 401K to put a down payment on an apartment you could afford. Afford = the amount of interest < what you would actually pay in rent, or at least close (Haggle haggle haggle... )
If you can't afford to go with an interest + principle loan, see what options you have for an interest only loan, this would bring repayments down considerably (usually 10-15%). Look for really run down apartments you can fix yourself internally (fixing increases value, so it's like you're earning money in your spare time), but it must be in a good/semi decent area, close to amenities (public transport, shops, offices and schools), this would ensure maximum growth in an unstable market and easier sale at the end of it. Extra money should be spent fixing up the apartment or paying down the principle in the loan.
At the end of your schooling, there should have been some growth in the apartment. Sell the apartment, put your 401k back into your savings account, use what you have saved/paid into principle during this time + any capital gains from the apartment as your down payment for your next place.
Your life will be hard during these years, but you should be back in the black at the end of it. (provided there's not another housing crash... check with Khross on this one as I don't know enough about the US economy to predict).