and holy crap!!! A Ven sighting!!! I am glad to read that Ven's thread.
Well to give people a refresher on where things have traversed with me:
I finally got off my duff and moved out of my ex's house where she was fooling around and I was supporting her lifestyle. It was the best decision I ever made.
During the two years I stayed with the roommates after that I spent some time single, dated a psycho and split from being with her. And got back into contact with my ex girlfriend Honi.
And through the long and the short: Her and I spent the past two years together, realizing that what we wanted WAS each other, and that we were just too selfish to realize it when we were younger.
This finally led us to two weeks ago: 19 days short of being back together two years ago. When for some reason she decided to say I do, and became my wife.
It is strange how much growing up we both did over the past several years of being apart. The past two years have actually been blissful.