RangerDave wrote:
Yeah, I always feel bad about not responding to your responses. It's a combination of two things: (1) lack of time and
I have 2 jobs, I'm taking 17 credits, and I have 3 children at home. I really don't get this.
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(2) the realization (which, for some reason, surprises me every time, even after all these years) that we perceive the world in such fundamentally different ways on issues of racism and sexism that I don't really know how to respond. Trump is a perfect example of that - he's so clearly, obviously, proudly racist and sexist in my view, and I know you're already aware of the same actions, statements and patterns of behavior that I believe demonstrate it, so if you don't see those acts/statements/behaviors as racist and sexist, I don't know what else to say. It really seems like you have such a chip on your shoulder about these things that literally nothing short of a KKK rally would strike you as racist and I'm not even sure what would strike you as sexist.
Let me explain it like this - saying something "isn't racist" or "isn't sexist" isn't an expression of approval. It just means that it does not fit into those categories. It's not possible to actually have a conversation about the issue with someone that is referring to something as "racist" or "sexist" because there's an implication there that you're "defending racism" or "defending sexism". These terms are an attempt to gain an upper hand before a discussion even starts by implying that the other side is ok with racism or sexism, and forcing them to walk on eggshells around the topic. There's even a joke about that that goes:
"I'm not racist but..." *says something racist*
Which is all hardee har har until you realize that what's said is often not "racist" at all; it's frequently a discussion of facts that a miinority group, or a liberal finds uncomfortable, and the reference to racism is designed to prevent people from bringing this up in the first place.
Ideas and actions that are genuinely racist are very easy to criticize without actually using those terms. I can very easily explain why the KKK is bad without using the term "racist". It should be possible to do so, and the advantage of that is that it focuses on the ideas rather than being a veiled ad hom against one's opponent. If I start a discussion off with "niggers are...<statistic here>" you aren't going to want to discuss the statistic with me, so I don't know why you think it's possible to have a conversation when you think that "racism" as you perceive it is some sort of self-evident truth.
Much of what you perceive as "racism" is stereotyping and predjudice and generalizations, which range from "not as bad as actual racism, but bad" (for some prejudices) up to "unfortunate, but undeniably true as a general rule". The idea that generalizations are always bad is an idea middle school children indulge in; discussion is impossible without them and just because one is uncomfortable with the implications of one doesn't make it inaccurate. The same applies to "sexism", in different ways.
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And just to be clear, I'm not saying that you, DE, are racist and sexist. I'm saying that you seem to have so much resentment around these issues that you seem willfully blind to those things in others, and that leaves me at a loss on how to engage you about them.
Reference the lengthy explanations I referred to in my previous post. I'm well known for my verbose posting; it's not as if I haven't gone into the issue beyond merely denying the "racism" or "sexism".
However, I'll try to sum up the issues with the use of the concept of "racism" and "sexism" for your convenience, the 3 top issues being underlined:
1) The continuing shifting definitions of these terms, and invention of new forms of "racism" and "sexism" such as "microaggressions" and "cultural appropriation". While you may not personally indulge in the most absurd forms of nonsense, the fact is that accusations of "racism" are permanently tainted with this absurdity. Hearing the word "racism" these days is a clue that one is talking to someone who is simply not interested in reasoned discussion at all.2) Near-complete refusal to acknowledge "racism" on the part of minorities (or the left), or "sexism" by women (and the actual sexism engaged in by serious feminists and some portions of the left). When such is acknowledged, it is inevitably in the most cursory way, with the excuse being some variant on historical inequalities. This is not the way to build equality and tolerance; you cannot create it by creating new inequalities and double standards, then trying to excuse them. It often appears that the goal is to create backlash and resentment in order to maintain the currency of the issue.3) The proliferation of both individual incidents of fabricating "hate", "sexism/misogyny" or "racism" and the invention of laughable statistics to support them, or oversimplification to the point of essentially becoming a fabrication. We're told with a straight face that rape on college campuses equals the rate found in the Congo in the middle of a civil war where it's an accepted terror practice. We're told about a "gender wage gap" that shrinks by 75% when even the most elementary statistical controls are applied, and which suspiciously does not generate any actual incidents of wage discrimination. There is endless talk about disproportionate effects of criminal justice on blacks while the equally-significant disproportionate prevalence of criminality prompts finger-wagging. In a "racist" or "oppressive" nation, no one does this. Only a society that really cares about racism or sexism would even be worth fabricating such claims against in the first place.4) The demonization of female and minority public figures that do not hold the "approved" views for their identity group.
5) The attribution of any disagreement on these issues to the motivation of the other party. This happens publicly, with such nonsense as the "basket of deplorables" comment, and you did it above. You seem to want to attribute this to a "chip on my shoulder" and what it would take for me to call something racist or sexist, to the point that you don't know how to respond. You may have noted that inability to respond is not one of my problems. This appears to be a common problem on the left, a refusal to acknowledge even the possibility of discussion on these topics rather than simply deploying the terms and then refusing to acknowledge that in a free society, everyone's opinion matters on the subject of what opinions are permissible.
6) The obvious moral hazard of unconstrained ability to deploy terms like "racism" and "sexism". It should be obvious that if one side of debate can deploy them uncontested to put things the other side does so out of the realm of discussion, it will do so, and do so more and more frequently.
It appears to me that the reason that you're having a hard time knowing how to respond is that it hasn't occurred to you that someone could call into question how they are used. Yes, I have an exceedingly high bar for the use of the terms "racism" and "sexism" because by using them you're essentially trying to place things into the column of ideas that can be dismissed out of hand, and on top of that I see zero willingness to enforce the same standards on the left, or on minorities, and it presents all the signs of being a smoke screen for maintaining racial and sexual identity issues for as long as possible.