The Glade 4.0

"If you want someone to fall in love with you, open your heart to them.
If you want them obsessed with you, close it."


Discuss. Seems to be true in my experience.

That depends on a lot of factors. Are you opening your heart first and then closing it? Are you opening it randomly and closing it randomly? Thats what really messes with people's heads and hearts and gets them "obsessed" with you.
Those are signs of an emotionally unavailable person. Healthy people will not stick around long in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable person, but co-dependants love them.
Recipe for disaster.
If you are finding this to be true, maybe you need to look at the mental and emotional health of both yourself and the people you are getting involved with.

_________________
"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." Jesus of Nazareth

/nod

_________________

Holy shitsnacks!