Except it was directed at people I've known for over a decade, guys who aren't going to grow up and don't deserve help. If I have to give money against my will, it might as well go to people who are at least trying. I can say without a doubt, I know those two don't deserve a dime of help from anyone.
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Well, yes. However, they rarely come out of abject poverty. It's the Micheal Jordan theory, and it's intellectually lazy in my opinion. You see someone like Micheal Jordan, who overcame adversity and succeeded, and you naturally assume that *everyone* must be able to do that, that everyone must have similar levels of adversity, or must be wired to endure it in the same way. That leads one to the faulty conclusion that anyone who does not had failed of their own volition.
This ignores many of the real barriers people face every day of their lives, both within and without.
Yes, some have. But I doubt you would argue that the US would be the economic and global power it is today if we did not have public education.
I would argue the system of education has nothing to do with it. In fact, as schools become more like indoctrination camps rather than educational institutions (indoctrinating people to believe they are entitled to handouts), I would say public education is contributing toward lazy thinking rather than a questioning attitude.
BTW, MJ did not come out of abject poverty. He was born in Brooklyn and raised in North Carolina in relatively average environment. He's not a hood hoops to fame rags to riches story, like Michael Beasely or LeBron James. And for every LB James that made it huge, there are thousands of poor kids that probably made it through high school and made it better ... maybe not great, maybe not even average, but are living better for themselves than they were. But it's easy (and convenient) to discount them since you never read papers about them.
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Of course I'm going to blame him after the fact - I can't **** exactly do it before the fact, since I don't claim to be able to see into the future.
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Who said anything about a brain injury? Physical disability and unwillingness to help oneself aren't necessarily tied together for any reason.
But nice job assigning me my position; strawmen are easier to sack then real positions.
And that's why your view is irrational. He had no control over that car. He got hit. And as a result, he cannot be productive. You would blame him, and I would blame the accident, and try to support him.
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A single mother didn't "deserve" poverty, and there are provisions in place such as child support to at least help with some of the burden.
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Yeah. Because dead beat dads don't exist, right? hell, what right does she have to *my* money? She had those kids. Could have given them up for adoption. Her choice. Her fault.
Uh, no, obviously as someone who believes strongly in personal responsibility (the jury is still out for me on abortion because we all know murder is "wrong", but it's a matter of what constitutes human life which is infinitely subjective), the dad rightly owes money to raise the children or he gets to get charged with negligence or whatever is applicable. Yea, it's patrly her choice and fault, but it's his too. Again, nice job assigning me my position.
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And we had gotten back to such a nice conversational tone, too.
Oh, cut the bullshit. I'm just curt and up front about my opinions. You are passive aggressive, snide and generally insulting through thinly veiled sarcasm and facetious-ism. Your lowbrow skirting around the technicalities doesn't serve to make it any more pleasant. Not that it being pleasant has anything to do with being able to discuss things in a relatively objective manner. I'm just willing to admit I'm an *******. Get over it.