Kaffis Mark V wrote:
Monte wrote:
He physically hurt her?
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Broke a limb while violating a restraining order, IIRC.
What the......?!!?!?!?
There is absolutely no **** excuse for a man to lay a finger on a woman.
I revise my original post.
Kirra, the only person you should be feeling bad over is the woman he's with and the child he is going to pass on his cowardly, beating ways. I hope to God the state gets involved in the future and he's finally locked away with human beings that will show him what it's like to be defenseless and what the meaning of true beatings are. I hope the fear he feels is 100 times worse than anything you have ever felt. In Numbuk's perfect world, where he is ultimate king and dictator, all criminals have to serve their sentences with acts performed to them of the same nature of which they are convicted. I hate people (and I use this term very loosely to describe this... thing) like this.
You are a great person. You are pretty much the type of woman men (especially geeky men) dream about. You are smart. You are funny. You are geeky. There literally hundreds of thousands of nice, caring, decent men out there who would do anything just for a shot at a woman like you (believe me, I was certainly one of them when I was single). This goes for every other woman on this message board.
Don't ever for once feel bad about what you don't have with that loser anymore. I can promise you, with every fiber of my being, that you will not need to look very hard or very far for a good, honest, and loving man who will do nothing but treat you with the utmost respect. And, as I said before, you deserve nothing less.
We are always here for you. Always.