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PostPosted: Wed Aug 18, 2010 12:33 pm 
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Mainly because its up to Mookhow now.


It always was, Mookhow and Dash shared administrative rights here. Did dash quit or something? (I mean officially. I know that in a defacto way, he not only quit long ago, but he passive-aggressively forced all his mods to do so as well, one way or another.)

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Dash is just on vacation.


Ah. Well, Monte is banned. You got some 'splainin' to do when he gets home. :p

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Also it's common sense to not overly criticize the moderators on an Internet forum...


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And there, ladies and gentlemen, is our example of a poster smartening up.

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And I'm not the only one who took your message as insulting. The moderators clearly felt you were out of line too, indicating the problem was your ability to communicate, not my ability to understand.
Except, they split your responses from the thread, too. The moderators didn't feel I was out of line as much they felt compelled to deal with your report. Your action speaks volumes, and as it's part of a larger pattern of behavior, it is something the community should address (and has).


*chuckle* Really? (Looks through PM box for warnings from mods.) Nope. none.
(looks through threads to where my post was the impetus for splitting the thread) Nope. None.
(looks through posts where I resort to name calling.) Eh. maybe one or two at best even in hellfire.

When mods split threads they normally split ALL relevant posts, but you've actually had yours specifically quoted as being the offending post.

viewtopic.php?f=2&t=3541&start=25

But you know, as long as you keep repeating the lie to yourself (and the world) that you're somehow an innocent victim of the big bad Riov who somehow is trashing your beloved glade with my self pity, take a long look in the mirror. I'm not the one who's resorting to name calling anyone who disagrees with me. I've even been complimentery to you on a couple of occasions. I've even weighed in as agreeing with the likes of Rynar and Elmo and a few of the others when I feel they are right.

I'll disagree with people who I feel are wrong on a particular issue. You seem to have it in for me. How many posts do you name me, in a negative sense, when I'm not even part of the discussion?


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And there, ladies and gentlemen, is our example of a poster smartening up.

Our little boy is growing up!

Now, you'll notice some changes... hair will grow where it didn't before... and you'll grow a pair...well, that may or may not happen. That's pretty much a voluntary thing.

You WILL find yourself having to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night...

Oh, wait - that's MY changes. Scratch that last one.

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Searching for Khross using your name (TheRiov) in a Post

36% of those posts are in the last 7 days. You have a weird definition of stalking/having it out for you.

Search for TheRiov using my name (Khross) in a Post

And, out of curiosity, let's see how many of your posts are deliberately antagonistic ...
viewtopic.php?f=8&t=734&p=13555&hilit=Khross#p13555
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apples and oranges. But you knew that.

The gov't can set conditions for receiving bailout money.

(hey Khross, are you talking to me? or grandstanding for everyone else? If not, try not addressing people in 3rd person. You'll come across as less arrogant.)


And to answer your questions, the govornment sets a number of regulations about how I am to be compensated, though not specifically the amount I am paid.


Now answer my question.

viewtopic.php?f=8&t=1039&p=22554&hilit=Khross#p22554
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Let's face it Khross, sometimes you (and to some extent me, and several others) have been known to throw vocabulary at a problem in hopes of intimidating the other party. Your word choices are not simply about precision, but specifically chosen for their impact. Like any good writer, we try to convey emotion with our word choices. It is unfortunate that the emotion some try to convey is haughty arrogance.

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Hardly. I know individuals who are highly accomplished mathematicians who have no vocabulary skills to speak of, and brilliant writers who can barely do basic mathematics. Khross excels at vocabulary and appears to enjoy using it to add the appearance of authenticity to sometimes ill-conceived arguments.

viewtopic.php?f=8&t=1665&p=35371&hilit=Khross#p35371
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Really Khross? I cannot discern a writers intent without psychic ability or a degree in psychology? Amazing. And to think all those books we've read ... we just dont understand because we don't have those specific qualifications!
Give me a break. A writer's job is to convey intent. A readers job is to interpret the writers intent. If Beryllin comes across as gloating (as I'm not the only person who saw it that way) then indeed the failure may be with the writer...

Its not incongrous to suggest that people be held to the standard they hold others to.

Actually I read through the moderator's interpretation of the various reports and disagree with the offensiveness of the various post, and furthermore I see the moderators occasionally committing the same offenses being reported. (at least one moderator used the term "Victim complex" to describe Monte)

You sure about that Khross?

viewtopic.php?f=8&t=1665&p=35418&hilit=Khross#p35418
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A question of interpretation is not a lie; Khross, and you know it. To paint it in black and white like that is beneath you.
I need not tag "In my interpretation" to every post. its assumed. Just as it is with you. But a difference of opinion about intent is NOT a lie.
A lie implies a willful changing or miscommunication of facts --something you KNOW and is extrordiarily frustrating to have to explain (simply because I don't like leaving your own mistruths unanswered)

(redefining lie is in-itself a lie so in this instance I am not insinuating anyone is a liar. I am stating: To call my judgement of Beryllin's motives a "lie" is in and of itself a lie, and as one who stated the lie, you, Khross, are a liar.)

As for Bery, I'm not calling him a liar. I'm stating that his post to start this thread comes across as a kick-'em-when-they're-down gloating. Regardless of intent, that is how I interpret it. And Some people dont understand their own motives as well as they think they do. They may rationalize it as a show of solidarity to the moderators but their real goal is something else.


All of those posts take place prior to me indicating that a comparison to Nabokov was both ironic and a inappropriate as an indictment of the website you linked. It's interesting to note, however, that of the 24 times you've directly mentioned my name, 23 are negative and accusatory. And, appropriately, all of the posts prior to the Nabokov post by you are insulting save 1 about the Scrabble like game in Gaming.

Now, I wonder what you'll do with that fact ...

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Taskiss wrote:
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And there, ladies and gentlemen, is our example of a poster smartening up.

Our little boy is growing up!

Now, you'll notice some changes... hair will grow where it didn't before... and you'll grow a pair...well, that may or may not happen. That's pretty much a voluntary thing.

You WILL find yourself having to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night...

Oh, wait - that's MY changes. Scratch that last one.


I already have some white hairs. That said, I don't feel very grown up at all.


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http://gladerebooted.org/search.php?key ... mit=Search

36% of those posts are in the last 7 days. You have a weird definition of stalking/having it out for you.

except all the times you refer to me obliquely with such terms as "Captain victim card" or whatever else your current buzz word for me is.


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Can you and Khross take it to PMs or something? It's getting kind of irritating for the two of you to be bickering in every conversation.

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Well when I do try to take things to PM's I get crap like this:

viewtopic.php?f=8&t=3856&start=50


But hey, if Khross will back the hell off me, and stop making insinuations about my character, I'll be happy to let it drop.


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Can you and Khross take it to PMs or something? It's getting kind of irritating for the two of you to be bickering in every conversation.

I see it differently.

I'm hoping TheRiov actually READS what Khross is posting. Did you? I know he'll say that Khross started it first, but I tell you, in some sick way TheRiov is feeding off the conflict. Even if I'm wrong about that, he's sure not doing anything to tamper the coals... I think it's extremely interesting being on the outside looking in on this one.

Heck, he's apparently blaming Khross for Rynar replying to his "I hate you" PM.

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Can you and Khross take it to PMs or something? It's getting kind of irritating for the two of you to be bickering in every conversation.


Word.

I'm much more interested in the discussion over how "Don't be an ***" qualifies as a rule, and how all of a sudden somebody can arbitrarily be determined to be doing so given that the entire history of their behavior is consistently "ass-ish."

Again, I do not in principle disagree at all with the removal from individuals from a closed community, and specifically I agree with the removal of Montegue.

My concern in this case, as was the cause for me to resign as a moderator, is that no true grounds for the removal can be given except for pissing off one of the admins. Now, if that's grounds for perma-ban then fine, but it's a precarious position for any given poster to be in.

Now, I certainly understand Stathol's position here in that Monty indicated an absolute unwillingness to do X, Y, and Z; however, he has always exhibited an unwillingness to do X, Y, and Z. So unless something happened, perhaps via private message, IM, or email, it is logically inconsistent to believe that objective reasoning was the cause for the perma-ban. As such, as I joked to Corolinth via IM, one could only logically concluce that it was, in the end, personal.

Do I really believe that is the case? No, the board was not out to get Monty; however, given that no logical cause for the change in policy towards his behavior has been given at this time, one could definitely fall into that belief.

Will anything come of my concern about the vagaries and arbitrary nature of the rules, specifically in regards to this decision? I doubt it. What, ultimately, am I saying? That I believe it would assuage the concerns of many community members if a more concrete reason for the change in policy regarding this behavior would be given.

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Talya wrote:
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Mainly because its up to Mookhow now.


It always was, Mookhow and Dash shared administrative rights here. Did dash quit or something? (I mean officially. I know that in a defacto way, he not only quit long ago, but he passive-aggressively forced all his mods to do so as well, one way or another.)


Technically yes, but Mook was sort of the "technical admin" and Dash was the "community admin" so to speak, except it seems Dash has pretty much abdicated at this point.

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Hell fire, where we can have two tiered discussions!

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And arguments about how we're not arguing with each other.

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Can you and Khross take it to PMs or something? It's getting kind of irritating for the two of you to be bickering in every conversation.


Word.

I'm much more interested in the discussion over how "Don't be an ***" qualifies as a rule, and how all of a sudden somebody can arbitrarily be determined to be doing so given that the entire history of their behavior is consistently "ass-ish."

Again, I do not in principle disagree at all with the removal from individuals from a closed community, and specifically I agree with the removal of Montegue.

My concern in this case, as was the cause for me to resign as a moderator, is that no true grounds for the removal can be given except for pissing off one of the admins. Now, if that's grounds for perma-ban then fine, but it's a precarious position for any given poster to be in.

Now, I certainly understand Stathol's position here in that Monty indicated an absolute unwillingness to do X, Y, and Z; however, he has always exhibited an unwillingness to do X, Y, and Z. So unless something happened, perhaps via private message, IM, or email, it is logically inconsistent to believe that objective reasoning was the cause for the perma-ban. As such, as I joked to Corolinth via IM, one could only logically concluce that it was, in the end, personal.

Do I really believe that is the case? No, the board was not out to get Monty; however, given that no logical cause for the change in policy towards his behavior has been given at this time, one could definitely fall into that belief.

Will anything come of my concern about the vagaries and arbitrary nature of the rules, specifically in regards to this decision? I doubt it. What, ultimately, am I saying? That I believe it would assuage the concerns of many community members if a more concrete reason for the change in policy regarding this behavior would be given.


I think that you're overlooking the fact that he pissed off the admin specifically by dragging that admin into a Hellfire dispute which he had no desire to be a part of, and did so over his administrative duties. I don't see how it could be personal, since Mook probably has less history with Monty than anyone else here. He piled this on top of his extensive history of atrocious behavior.

That's all objective reasoning. The line that he crossed was subjective, but this was not a case of subjectively deciding that his repeated behavior had suddenly crossed some imaginary line; it was based on the fact that he added a new behavior to it; specifically moving the discussion beyond hellfire and its purview of topics and into a smear campaign against an admin who puts in effort to maintain the board and doesn't wish to participate in Hellfire.

So yes, there are other logically consistent conclusions beyond it being personal.

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I think that you're overlooking the fact that he pissed off the admin specifically by dragging that admin into a Hellfire dispute which he had no desire to be a part of, and did so over his administrative duties. I don't see how it could be personal, since Mook probably has less history with Monty than anyone else here. He piled this on top of his extensive history of atrocious behavior.

That's all objective reasoning. The line that he crossed was subjective, but this was not a case of subjectively deciding that his repeated behavior had suddenly crossed some imaginary line; it was based on the fact that he added a new behavior to it; specifically moving the discussion beyond hellfire and its purview of topics and into a smear campaign against an admin who puts in effort to maintain the board and doesn't wish to participate in Hellfire.


I believe Monty had done the same thing in the past, though perhaps with less vehemence. Without post searches I do not have evidence to support that belief at this time, so you may be correct. That has not, from what I've seen, been stated as the reason, although it has been implied to be.

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If it were truly Hellfire, there'd be 7 tiered discussions.

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Huh. Can't say I'm surprised. The vast majority of this board has been fed up or annoyed at Monte for years.

That said, what is really disappointing is how none of the many many posters who have specifically targeted him over the years have had anyone call them on their behavior.

Monte absolutely needs to be responsible for his actions, yet that doesn't make all of the bullying that he's been a recipient of "ok".

It's been my observations that the "Don't be an ***" rule is VERY selectively used. I sincerely hope that changes in the future. YMMV.


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I think that you're overlooking the fact that he pissed off the admin specifically by dragging that admin into a Hellfire dispute which he had no desire to be a part of, and did so over his administrative duties. I don't see how it could be personal, since Mook probably has less history with Monty than anyone else here. He piled this on top of his extensive history of atrocious behavior.

That's all objective reasoning. The line that he crossed was subjective, but this was not a case of subjectively deciding that his repeated behavior had suddenly crossed some imaginary line; it was based on the fact that he added a new behavior to it; specifically moving the discussion beyond hellfire and its purview of topics and into a smear campaign against an admin who puts in effort to maintain the board and doesn't wish to participate in Hellfire.


I believe Monty had done the same thing in the past, though perhaps with less vehemence. Without post searches I do not have evidence to support that belief at this time, so you may be correct. That has not, from what I've seen, been stated as the reason, although it has been implied to be.


I know it hasn't, but that's the only indicator we have, and given that it's a very uncharacteristic action from Mookhow, that makes the evidence very strong indeed. As to whether he did it in the past, I don't recall either for sure but nothing comes to mind. There may have been things that could have been read in that way, but I don't recall anything quite so blatant as this episode of drama-hijaking.

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Huh. Can't say I'm surprised. The vast majority of this board has been fed up or annoyed at Monte for years.

That said, what is really disappointing is how none of the many many posters who have specifically targeted him over the years have had anyone call them on their behavior.

Monte absolutely needs to be responsible for his actions, yet that doesn't make all of the bullying that he's been a recipient of "ok".

It's been my observations that the "Don't be an ***" rule is VERY selectively used. I sincerely hope that changes in the future. YMMV.


There's only one poster that could really be said to be "specifically targetting him." Monty has not been the recipient of bullying, nor was there any need to call anyone else on their behavior. Other people have been out of line from time to time, but the fact that everyone else is not perfect does not mean Monty was somehow being victimized. This sort of thing comes up every time he's gotten in trouble, someone always wants to pretend that everyone else's behavior somehow is just like his because it wasn't perfect. When it takes the entire rest of the board to equate him in assholishness, the problem is not with the entire rest of the board.

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