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Seeing as he's jumped from "Victim Card" posts to these thoughtful, well written posts in each section, I'd say something about his mental state has suddenly changed as of this morning.

Either that, or he's being sarcastic.


Maybe I got bored of one style of posting... my mental state is also improved but I don't find it relevant here. I'm not being sarcastic.

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How so? If shuyung believes it to be an abuse of authority it is aptly named.


Moderator abuse is typically banning people who shouldn't be banned or locking threads that shouldn't be locked. What he did wasn't "abuse". It was miscalibrated moderation.


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Seeing as he's jumped from "Victim Card" posts to these thoughtful, well written posts in each section, I'd say something about his mental state has suddenly changed as of this morning.

Either that, or he's being sarcastic.


I think Lex finally might have his meds on track. Good for him.

FWIW I also take issue with the thread title, but I was ignored when I said something to shuyung about it.
I just don't think it was very nice or appropriate.

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It was miscalibrated moderation.

No, it was just normal run of the mill moderation. It violated no recognized guidelines, but it did violate imaginary ones that pitiful people hold on to because they desperately envy the power of authority.

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I have nothing against Micheal as a person or a poster.

As a moderator, while working with him I found it was a constant effort because he seems to have a slight inclination to play wise-father-figure and tell people what is appropriate and what is not based on his personal opinions and not the (then) stated rules. There was an aspect of censorship and "we'll tell you how you should think" to it that I found uncomfortable. A moderator must remain dispassionate and cannot be inclined to give a **** about people's feelings or who offended whom and still do their job effectively.

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Seeing as he's jumped from "Victim Card" posts to these thoughtful, well written posts in each section, I'd say something about his mental state has suddenly changed as of this morning.

Either that, or he's being sarcastic.


I think Lex finally might have his meds on track. Good for him.

FWIW I also take issue with the thread title, but I was ignored when I said something to shuyung about it.
I just don't think it was very nice or appropriate.


Actually, you weren't. I quoted and responded to you.

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How did I miss that?

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Not sure. ::edit:: What the ****? Now I can't find this either, and I distinctly remember writing up a reply to you.

But actually, according to Dash from the last thread (Moderation Request), it is general policy to delegate the moderation of a discussion you are involved in to someone else.

And I think it this was the first time recently Mike had done it, the response probably would have been different.

But it happening again so soon after the last time seemed a bit much to me, as well.

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Ah, well. Maybe I'm just biased? I'm rather fond of Micheal and more apt to see that he didn't do anything wrong.
In regards to Talya's assessment of Micheal's "fatherly" approach to moderating....lacking a father figure in my life for the past decade probably explains why I have no problems with his mod style and actually prefer it.

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Not sure. ::edit:: What the ****? Now I can't find this either, and I distinctly remember writing up a reply to you.


Yeah, thats why I'm confused. I don't remember reading one and I was very thorough...and I couldn't find one when I went back and combed through either.

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Here we go.... It was in one of the other threads...

There we go! I'd replied to you in one of the other threads....

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I didn't mean the entire quote. I just meant "special hell". I'm surprised that wasn't used further in the past, like from Dante or something.


I could see that as well...but everything in pop culture points to the term "special hell" meaning a place for pedophiles.
Personally, I didn't associate the term with child molesters until this issue came up on the board.

And Shuyung, the title of your thread was pretty mean and immature. You weren't very nice about it and you could have handled it without being so harsh. It would have hurt my feelings for sure, and Micheal is a really nice guy who generally is very polite and respectful to everyone around here...you could have given him the same courtesy when pointing out his alleged mistake.


The last, very similar post when Mike moderated (and locked with a snarky comment) an argument he was part of didn't drive him off, and people didn't complain about that "moderation request" being made.

I'm sorry to see Mike leave, he's been a part of the community for a long time. I'm not sorry to see him stepping down as a mod. I wish he could have done one without the other.

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::edit:: What the ****? Now I can't find this either, and I distinctly remember writing up a reply to you.


Maybe a dingo ate your post.

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Ah, well. Maybe I'm just biased? I'm rather fond of Micheal and more apt to see that he didn't do anything wrong.
In regards to Talya's assessment of Micheal's "fatherly" approach to moderating....lacking a father figure in my life for the past decade probably explains why I have no problems with his mod style and actually prefer it.


Makes sense.

To me, I would say this thread title was more out of line had it not been following on the heels of another similar instance. And even then, I don't really think that a thread, created in Hellfire, with that title is so horribly offensive compared to everything else that goes on here.

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Oh ok, yeah, I remember that now. Thanks for finding that, Neph.
I don't recall the incident in question, but if its true, I can understand why some would be upset about that.
I don't think moderators should be moderating and taking action in threads that they are actively involved in on a personal basis.
I have a hard time seeing Micheal doing that. But again...bias, I'm sure.

I still stand behind my opinion that the title of the thread is rude and uncalled for....but everyone is entitled to an opinion I suppose.

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LadyKate wrote:
In regards to Talya's assessment of Micheal's "fatherly" approach to moderating....lacking a father figure in my life for the past decade probably explains why I have no problems with his mod style and actually prefer it.


And I find it wholly offensive, but that's neither here nor there.

I think the question is whether an "abuse of power" is involved when you moderate a thread you are an active participant in, particularly when you are in the middle of the "controversy" or "issue" in that thread. Personally I say yes.

Assuming that can be agreed upon, the question then becomes one of how severe an "abuse," and whether anything "should" be done about it. My answer is that whether something "should" be done depends wholly upon whether the behavior is part of a trend, as any given moderator, being human, will make mistakes of judgment in regards to recusing themselves and will moderate on the "issue." This is forgiveable of course as no one is infallible. If it is an ongoing trend for that individual, a logically correct ethical belief that they should "step down" could be held, which is what shuyung seems to be stating.

I'm not going to say whether I agree or not with shuyung's contention. Calling him rude, mean, impolite, or uncivil in stating that point is unwarranted, in my opinion; shuyung is merely stating his belief as to proper action.

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I came home late on Sunday night and saw only the split thread. When I skimmed it I recall being taken aback at how quickly Michael came out of the gates in his first post. I wouldn't normally expect that of him and thought it was a little uncharacteristic. I can see, with the way it all went down hill, how his action as moderator in the same thread didn't sit well.


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I don't think that Shuyung is rude or mean, (don't have anything against him personally), just that the thread title he made was not very nice.
But again, thats just my opinion.
"Most recent abuse" to me would indicate a repeated pattern of behavior which I can't really see attributed to someone like Micheal who has, at best, in my humble opinion, made one or two minor mistakes.
Anyway, I'm not trying to get involved in a debate I can't win...just wanted to say how I felt on the matter and I think I got my point across.

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I don't think that Shuyung is rude or mean, (don't have anything against him personally), just that the thread title he made was not very nice.
But again, thats just my opinion.
"Most recent abuse" to me would indicate a repeated pattern of behavior which I can't really see attributed to someone like Micheal who has, at best, in my humble opinion, made one or two minor mistakes.
Anyway, I'm not trying to get involved in a debate I can't win...just wanted to say how I felt on the matter and I think I got my point across.


Just as a point of clarification, it was never called his "most recent abuse", simply "recent abuse". One suggests (as you say) a pattern of abuses, the other simply refers to a temporally proximal incident of abuse.

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::edit:: What the ****? Now I can't find this either, and I distinctly remember writing up a reply to you.


Maybe a dingo ate your post.

I thought the servers weren't located in Australia anymore...


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I don't think that Shuyung is rude or mean, (don't have anything against him personally), just that the thread title he made was not very nice.
But again, thats just my opinion.
"Most recent abuse" to me would indicate a repeated pattern of behavior which I can't really see attributed to someone like Micheal who has, at best, in my humble opinion, made one or two minor mistakes.
Anyway, I'm not trying to get involved in a debate I can't win...just wanted to say how I felt on the matter and I think I got my point across.


Just as a point of clarification, it was never called his "most recent abuse", simply "recent abuse". One suggests (as you say) a pattern of abuses, the other simply refers to a temporally proximal incident of abuse.


Lol, guess my bias and pregnancy brain threw an extra word in there...my bad!
Seriously though, thats what I think when I read the title. I still see a difference in "abuse" and "recent abuse" as "recent" would indicate a past too.
But, I am totally not one to have any credibility arguing semantics.

Bottom line is, I just miss Micheal and I think the whole thing was a big misunderstanding and not indicative of any larger problem or repeated pattern of behavior. :(

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But actually, according to Dash from the last thread (Moderation Request), it is general policy to delegate the moderation of a discussion you are involved in to someone else.


We aren't on the same page at all on characterizing that post...

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We usually try to delegate to others if we're directly involved. I'm sure there have been times we havent though, so, noted and chalk this up to human fallibility. Nobody is perfect, other than me of course. And the Hypno-toad (all glory).


Going from "we usually try to delegate to others" to "it is general policy to delegate" is a leap I wouldn't be comfortable making for others. However, if that's the way you want to interpret that, you're entitled.

The way I see it, there is no policy for moderators. They swing the banhammer at their own discretion. We either agree or find another forum, and we don't lack for options there. I might believe things should be a certain way, but bottom line reality is, Mook's my daddy, and I don't **** with daddy's ****.

I've heard all sorts of "this was good" and "this was bad" crap, but we all know that the perfect fantasy moderator is the one that agrees with us on how things should be and smites our enemies for us. The further you get from my ideal, the worse you are. Don't sugar coat things, folks - ain't a one of us don't dream of others having to do our heavy lifting for us, and that's how we see moderators - they're slaves to our desires.

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That's never stopped the dingo's before! They're tricky bastards, they are...

Though, they've been a lot less coordinated and have been tending towards, dare I say it, listlessness since February.

Which is why I'm inclined to think that it was, instead, Kobolds that ate your post, Nephyr.

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Though, they've been a lot less coordinated and have been tending towards, dare I say it, listlessness since February.


Mourning the loss of their respected mistress, no doubt.

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I too rather liked Micheals moderation style, and thought he did a fine job.

To call what he did 'abuse' is more than a bit of a stretch in my opinion.

I think everyone involved in that situation could have handled it better, but it's all water under the bridge now.

Lessons learned, and lets move on, understanding the perils of having normal users wearing moderator hats...


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