Hopwin wrote:
What is the point of life to you? Are you living simply because you were born? Are you hedonistic, seeking only pleasure? Live your life in service to God/others, etc. Why do you go to work every day, pay your bills, eat food, continue to breathe?
An interesting question.
Sadly for myself, because I am not religious, I don't believe that there is some divine or overarching purpose to life. I say that without any sarcasm. This may surprise folks, but there are times when I think it would be so much easier to be faithful and firmly believe there is some higher power that has a plan or design for me.
But since I'm left to my own devices, I have to create that purpose or point myself. Earlier in my life it was "success" in the usual work life/keeping up with the Jones' fashion. I worked my way up the corporate ladder (may still be, more later), got married and managed to accumulate a fair amount of "stuff". Nice house, a few cars/motorcycles, big TV and stereo, etc. For several years these were things that I felt content with pursuing. They brought enjoyment into my life and made life better and easier.
I turned 40 this year, and maybe it's my age setting in, but these same things don't motivate me like they used to. Sure I could get a "nicer" house/car/motorcycle but the ones I have are fine and good quality. There's always "more", but I'm at a point where adding significantly to any of the things I have would require a significant amount of time, money and effort and I'm not sure it's worth it or that I want the financial burden long term.
Along the same lines, I'm at a bit of a quandry in my profession. I make a very solid salary and really don't have to work very hard for it all things considered. Most of my worries on any given day is staving off boredom, which is a good part of why I post here as much as I do. I've come to a point at my company where there really isn't going to be any advancement or learning opportunities that aren't "more of the same" for quite a while if ever. Similarly the specific industry I work in isn't overly appealing to me. It's not bad mind, but it's also not something that I'm passionate about. I've been trying to decide if I want to just stay where I am, with a fair amount of seniority and complacence because I know my job in and out, or go try something new. Sadly, try something new is likely going to involve a pay cut. Additionally, my wife has been unemployed for about 10 months now and just now got a 8-10 week contract job. So me getting a pay cut isn't really tenable atm, not to mention the added risk of being the low guy on the totem pole if the economy/new company tanks.
All of this has left me wondering about your question Hopwin. Unfortunately so far, I haven't found any answers. Only more questions.