Killuas wrote:
Good points DE, although I still think it would help some I agree with Vin's points above. It still doesn't make sense to me though why you can shag 1000 women for free but you give them money and now it is wrong. Sure a lot of people think doing 1000 for free is wrong but it isn't illegal as long as they are consenting adults.
I'm not commenting on the inherent morality or immorality of prosititution. If prostitution did not have such correlation with abuse and slavery I would support legalizing it.
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That is (to me at least) the weirdest part of this whole thing, drugs and alcohol are illegal (at least when alcohol was banned) are illegal whether you charged for it or not. If they want to make prostitution illegal then they should make sex outside of marriage illegal as well (I am sure there are people that would love that) it just seems absurd to make something illegal that you can do for free with no legal consequences.
That's absolutely silly, and it is simply making an abstract and simplistic consistency more important than a workable societal situation for no good reason except to create a false dilemma. In point of fact, sex between consenting adults where money does not change hands has
vastly less potential for abuse than when it does; in fact I woudl seriously question any assumption that sex involving money is consenual.
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Is buying someone dinner then going back to your house prostitution? You exchanged something of value for sex, to me it seems like there is no difference. How about someone that sets someone up in an apartment and pays for all of their living expenses but does not give them cash, is that legal or is it prostitution? Where is the line?
This is a false dilemma. Obviously there is not a clear line, but that does not limit society to picking only one extreme or another in the interest of abstract consistency. Society draws a line where it finds one acceptable.
Your example of dinner and sex is only true if and only if the couple in question had sex simply becuase one had bought the other one dinner. As a general rule, people on dates do not feel compelled to have sex just because someone bought them a steak, and we often refer to those who assume they are owed sex in exchange for dinner as rapists. Usually when the sex is consensual in this case, its a matter of both sides wanting to enjoy each other's company, and the same is true for the dinner.