Müs wrote:
Jocificus wrote:
I've always wondered, but are there legal repercussions against the person involved that misrepresented themselves?
Like in this case, the boy allegedly told her he was 20, and she believed him. As he is the one that actually caused the problem in the first place by lying about his age, would he face any repercussions if he were somewhere in the US?
I say that because he's legal where he is. I've just never understood how the person that was lied to can be punished, in some cases so severly, while the person who actually created the problem by lying seemingly gets off scott free. This seems like a horrible injustice.
Because sex is awful and dirty and noone should ever have it except for the express purpose of reproduction. And even that can be resolved with in-vitro.
No, it's more the fact that whenever people think of sex with an underage person, they think a young boy, or that innocent teen girl who really doesn't want sex, and the laws are made based on that stereotype.
It never occurs to anyone that the teenager might possibly want to engage in sexual activity unless it's an underage male with a woman, and even then it's still treated as if the teen can't possibly understand what they were really doing. In popular media, fiction or nonfiction, all female teens always really want to say "no" and most of the males really do too, it's just "peer pressure" or something stopping them from doing so.
That's why the laws are so **** up. Everyone wants to see teenagers as "children" who need to be protected from their own sexuality. Sure, they aren't adults, and they do need supervision and guidance, but they also need it acknowledged that they are not being inherently irresponsible just for wanting sex, and they need to be held responsible for their sexual behaviors.